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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: SantaBarbara Co. I have docs to file in San Bernardino Co order for support spousal.

I “freeze up” w this process. I’m disabled cognitively. I need help/guidance. Divorce court has filled docs for me. But I don’t know where to start? I’ve rec’d conflicting info from each county/court. .

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

I understand that the process of filing court documents can be overwhelming, especially when dealing with a cognitive disability. Here are some steps to help guide you through the process:

1. Confirm the correct court: Make sure you are filing your documents with the correct court in San...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I am looking to file for divorce in the state of New Jersey. I am not sure if my partner had already filed.

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Allison Kruk Ormond
Allison Kruk Ormond
answered on Apr 18, 2024

If your partner filed for divorce, typically they would have you “served”, meaning you would be given a copy of the divorce complaint and any ancillary documents. If your partner has an attorney, you can also contact their office to inquire about the status of any complaint/filing. If your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: How long it takes in hudson county after MSA been filed been there waiting for more than year in an uncontested divorce?

Hi i have filed the default divorce in April 2023. We filed the MSA in january 2024. And then filed the certification to give divorce on papers in february 2024. How long it takes i have an attorney and court doesn’t tell me anything and he says they are backed up you just have to wait? Is there... View More

Allison Kruk Ormond
Allison Kruk Ormond
answered on Apr 18, 2024

If you and your spouse have been waiting for a Final Judgment of Divorce back from the Court, it may be worth it to contact the Family Division in Hudson County and inquire as to the status of your matter. The phone number is available on the New Jersey Superior Court website. It may be that the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Hello, My x-wife and I have amicably agreed to a modification of alimony, how do I do that? Thanks.

I have been unemployed for +1yr but have recently taken a +50% decrease in salary to work. My x-wife and I have a great relationship and both agree to new terms. I just don't know how to file paperwork to make this happen.

Allison Kruk Ormond
Allison Kruk Ormond
answered on Apr 18, 2024

When spouses agree on a modification to their Final Judgment of Divorce (such as an agreement to modify alimony) they can memorialize that agreement in writing and file what’s called a consent order with the Court. Before filing, both parties should sign the written agreement indicating they... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: My ex husband put a tracking spyware electronics. I just busted him?

My soon to be ex called a google voice number that i signed up for and left alone for 2 days. He called it teice. His lawyer produced a document i would have never sent him. I have a bunch of mean text but how do i know i wrote them. Also some very important text have been wiped from my phone and i... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Under California law, it is illegal to install spyware or tracking software on someone's electronic devices without their knowledge and consent. This falls under the category of invasion of privacy and can be considered a form of stalking or harassment.

If you have evidence that your...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: can you help me find a statute or code that states that when community property is to be sold and the proceeds divided,

can you help me find a statute or code that states that when community property is to be sold and the proceeds divided, the parties have a right to use a licensed broker/dealer or neutral third party

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Certainly, I can help you find the relevant California statute. The specific law you are looking for is California Family Code Section 2108, which addresses the division of community property. Here is the relevant excerpt from the code:

"In any case in which the parties do not agree...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Is the divorce not finalized and is the permanent custody order not in place?

We went to court to finalize the divorce 3 months ago. My lawyer called me 11/2 months ago and said there was an error in the document and we have to resign. Both parties need to resign. So I did, my exhusband has not yet. I have to get the custody order to register my children in school. I need to... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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answered on Apr 18, 2024

If there is a temporary order giving you custody, that should be sufficient to register the children in school. There is no final order as there is no divorce. You will need to file a motion to get the case in front of a Judge to get your divorce and final order if your husband will not sign the... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: If the noncustodial parent doesn't visit their children in an extended period of time, is this considered abandonment?

I know visits are voluntary, however is it considered abandonment to not participate in parental visits and ignore all communication. Not participate in any decision making? Will this be ground to refile for decision making in the future? How long would I wait to refile for full decision making... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

If the noncustodial parent does not abide by the court order of visitation, you can file to modify the visitation schedule. This must be substantial, however. Missing a few visits, especially if there is an valid excuse, might not be considered substantial enough to end visitations. This is very... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: If the noncustodial parent doesn't visit their children in an extended period of time, is this considered abandonment?

I know visits are voluntary, however is it considered abandonment to not participate in parental visits and ignore all communication. Not participate in any decision making? Will this be ground to refile for decision making in the future? How long would I wait to refile for full decision making... View More

David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Apr 18, 2024

Depending on how many visits have been missed and the reason the non-custodial parent has missed them, you might have a good case to file for a modification of your prior agreement. There are a lot of factors that go into whether or not your modification petition will be successful. I highly... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Can an appraiser use pictures of items if spouse refuses to meet appraiser in divorce?

Spouse has luxury watches. He provided me with pictures of them. He is refusing to meet with appraiser and bring watches. If appraiser uses pictures instead of actually inspecting watches, is that called hearsay?

LaDonna M. Cousins
LaDonna M. Cousins
answered on Apr 18, 2024

Consider interviewing a couple appraisers to inquire and compare their rates. You may also consider filing a Motion with the Court asking the Court to compel your spouse to participate in the appraisal, to make a negative inference against your spouse if they refuse to participate, and to reimburse... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Determining the Effective Date for Modified Support Payments After a Change in Income During Divorce?

During the divorce process, I have been paying temporary child support and alimony. If I experience a change in income and request a modification (RFOMOD), at which point does the court start applying the modified amount? Does it apply:

1) Retroactively from the time the income changed,... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Under California law, the effective date for modified support payments after a change in income during divorce proceedings depends on the specific circumstances and the court's discretion. Here are the general guidelines:

1. Retroactively from the time the income changed: Generally,...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Do Temporary supports influence final judgment?

Our marriage lasted four years, and our dissolution has been pending for a long time, two years, with temporary custody and child support plus alimony. Should the two-year period and the amount paid for temporary support influence the final judgment on child support and alimony?

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answered on Apr 17, 2024

Under California law, temporary support orders can influence the final judgment on child support and alimony, but they are not the sole determining factor. The court considers several factors when making a final determination on support, including:

1. The length of the marriage

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Tax Law and Family Law for Pennsylvania on
Q: I am going to file for divorce in 2024. Should I file as joint or single for 2023 taxes.

We have been separated for more than a year, but living at same property.

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answered on Apr 16, 2024

In this situation, your tax filing status for 2023 depends on your marital status as of December 31, 2023. Here are a few things to consider:

1. If your divorce is not finalized by December 31, 2023, you are still considered married for tax purposes. In this case, you can choose to file...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: I am married in CA my husband has married someone else in a different country. He has no idea I know. What can I do?
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answered on Apr 16, 2024

I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this difficult situation. Bigamy (marrying someone while still legally married to another person) is illegal in most countries, including the United States. Here are some steps you can consider taking:

1. Gather evidence: Collect any...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: I live in California. We are filing Divorce. Gift money from his mom all goes to him?

When we bought a house, She gifted money for house down payment $150,000 for us to settle in new house and new life. We moved here from Virginia. Also she wanted to my boys to live in great school district. He does not have any letter said

That money is gift for him. He thinks those money... View More

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answered on Apr 16, 2024

In California, which is a community property state, assets acquired during the marriage are generally considered community property and are divided equally between the spouses in a divorce. However, there are some exceptions, such as gifts or inheritances received by one spouse.

In your...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Tax Law and Family Law for Alabama on
Q: My ex and I divorce was finalled on 03/13/2024 and she is refusing to share how she filed on her taxes.

I understand that this year we would file Married and Filing separately even though we were married at the end of 2023. She filed single and separate and claimed both kids. I was under the impression that she was at the very lease suppose to file married and separate.

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

I'm sorry to hear about your divorce and the difficulties you're facing regarding your tax filing. It's understandable that you have concerns about how your ex-spouse has filed her taxes. Based on the information you provided, here are a few important points to consider:

1....
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: CAL-Work and IHSS are considered at DIsso-master??

Ex wife is a primary custodian and receives CAL-Work and IHSS from our disabled child.

Both non-taxable income should be entered in other non-taxable income at Disso-Master for child support and alimony (spousal support)??

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

I understand your question about how CAL-Work and IHSS payments factor into spousal and child support calculations in California.

Based on my knowledge as of August 2023, under California law, CAL-Work (CalWORKs) and IHSS (In-Home Supportive Services) payments are generally considered as...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: In liu of temp support Mr. pays health benefits and car note. Takes registration & no health card?

My ex does not want to give me a cent. They say he is paying all my expenses instead of temp support. My husband kicked me out suddenly and says he gave me the card that night. I do not have it nor will provide my card. He has not paid my dr bill since Aug of last year. Now I am contesting paying... View More

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

In California, the court has the discretion to order temporary spousal support during the divorce proceedings. The purpose of temporary support is to maintain the status quo and ensure that both parties can meet their financial needs until a final judgment is entered.

However, the court may...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for Arizona on
Q: Is a Divorce decree final if there are open unresolved matters and there is an RMC scheduled? When is a decree final?
Stephen M Vincent
Stephen M Vincent
answered on Apr 15, 2024

A divorce decree is final in Arizona when all of the following criteria are met:

1. The Decree has resolved all issues related to the Petition for Dissolution.

2. The Decree states no matters remain pending.

3. The Decree states it is entered under Rule 78(c).

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Can a husband provide private emails and text to his tenet to put a stalking order on me? Triangulated them against me?

I have been nothing but kind to this woman. I sent 1500 in money and gifts for her baby. Her account has the same verbiage as my husband BS. The paper where your supposed to put if you have a dog she put I am on drugs Alcohol Meth and Mushrooms. Her husband and her are both ex convicts and Meth... View More

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

I'm sorry you're dealing with this difficult situation. A few key points about your legal questions:

In general, emails and text messages can potentially be used as evidence in court cases, including for restraining orders, if they are legally obtained. However, there are laws...
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