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1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law and Probate for Virginia on
Q: Suspect Trust having funds dispersed illegally. CA Orange County trust but I'm in VA and executor in Seattle. What to do

Stepmom/Bio Dad created Joint Trust in 2004. Stepmom began making changes to Trust in 2018/19 while Dad having dementia. Wouldn't say what she did . She died in 2020. Financial POA went to elder twin daughter of stepmom. She wouldn't give any info. Then she died in 2022. Now younger... Read more »

Richard Sternberg
Richard Sternberg
answered on Oct 1, 2022

There is no competent way such specifics can be resolved in an Internet forum outside of privilege and without reviewing the trust documents. Start with a lawyer in your state, and, if it turns to litigation, you might need counsel that has jurisdiction over the trust or the trustee in California... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Consumer Law, Collections and Elder Law for Arizona on
Q: A bathroom remodeler wants to assess me with restocking fees because I want to cancel now after 4 mos., can they do that

Installation was set to begin the week of September 26th. installers arrived & I questioned them on what exact directions were they given for the bathroom intallations. After their compliance with my request, I noted that they were given incorrect information concerning the specifics of one of... Read more »

Barry W. Kaufman
Barry W. Kaufman
answered on Sep 30, 2022

Dollar to a donut says that in your contract/estimate/invoice/ etc., there's mention of a restocking fee. Restocking fees are common in that business.

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law and Estate Planning for New Jersey on
Q: My mother in law died over a year ago. Her estate was insolvent- she owed much more in debts than she had in assets.

My husband is her only heir. He and I declined to take on any assets (namely her home and car) and we declined to administer the estate. A debtor is now suing for foreclosure and we are receiving endless summonses because we are named as heirs/interested parties. Do we need to answer these summons... Read more »

Morris Leo Greb
Morris Leo Greb
answered on Sep 27, 2022

Whether or not you are willing to accept or be responsible for any interest in the state, you have an interest which needs to be addressed in the foreclosure action. You will continue to receive information. If you do nothing, at some pont in time, the plaintiff will seek the entry of a default in... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law for Massachusetts on
Q: I was sent a demand letter from my father's Nursing Home Attorney. Demand payment of his balance with a Chapter 109A .

Uniform Fraudulent Transfer Act. My dad was a resident at Life Care Center Billerica, MA from May 25, 2021 - July 11, 2022(death). I had him transfer House deed to me and my sister in Sept 2021 recorded on 10/8/2021. His balance is 8,600. I was aware of the balance, however, explained how he has... Read more »

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Sep 26, 2022

So, there was a house transfer close to the date of death and includable in the lookback period so that there probably would not have been Medicaid/MassHealth eligibility . Contact a Medicaid specialist on this issue ASAP to present your set of facts to see if there is something recommended at... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law, Estate Planning, Family Law and Real Estate Law for Kentucky on
Q: When the will is executed, am I able to buy out the home for 2/3 of the market value using the inheritance $

I am set to be 1/3 heir of my grandfathers estate. Guardianship of my grandfather was recently granted to his friend, who also happens to be the eventual executor of his will. He was placed in an assisted living facility, and his home is currently vacant.

I was hoping to he able to move... Read more »

Timothy Denison
Timothy Denison
answered on Sep 25, 2022

No. The rental and the sale both will have to be at full fair market value in order to preserve your grandfathers estate. You may be able to rent it and buy it later, but they will both have to be at fair market value.

1 Answer | Asked in Civil Rights, Elder Law and Health Care Law for California on
Q: 1. My friend (boyfriend) of two or three years has heart issues. 2. His request always is to be housed near me.

3. When being discharged to nursing facility his sister moves him without his knowledge.

He states that she doesn't have durable power of attorney.

He wants me to make decisions so he can be near me. Feels he gets better with me near by

I live in Hemet CA (Riverside... Read more »

James R. Dickinson
James R. Dickinson
answered on Sep 22, 2022

He should speak with an estate planning attorney. [I litigate cases. Anything posted here must not be construed as legal advice, nor as grounds for forming an attorney-client relationship. You should seek an attorney for formal legal advice and representation.]

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law and Probate for Oregon on
Q: Sister added her name to my father's bank accounts, stocks/bonds and vehicles before he passed. She claims it's hers now

She changed his will after he moved in with her. At the time he had Dementia and was on hospice. I didn't realize all this until getting the probate papers and she didn't list all his assets. When I questioned why his accounts were not listed she said her name was on it so it all belongs... Read more »

Theressa Hollis
Theressa Hollis
answered on Sep 20, 2022

I'm very sorry for your loss. You should consult with a probate litigator. You may be able to contest the Will. It may be more difficult reverse the titling of your father's bank accounts and/or vehicles but a probate litigator will be able to give you an estimate of your chances of success.

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law for Texas on
Q: I am trying to find out how I can get legal power of attorney over my mother for making medical decisions.

My mother has severe memory loss an confusion.

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Sep 19, 2022

It is probably too late to get a legal power of attorney given your mother's memory loss and confusion. Even if your mother were to sign the power of attorney, it may be challenged due to a lack of capacity or competence to understand the significance of what she is signing.

You will...
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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning and Elder Law for New York on
Q: My financial advisor (CFP) contacted my brother (no power) to advise him I'd made a change to my POA. Did he break a law

My brother is a friend of the CFP but has no legal authority for my estate - living trust. The CFP is in Georgia. I think he breached client confindentiality at the very least and likely violated a code of ethics. What recourse do I have? Is there a Board where I can lodge a complaint? Thank... Read more »

Michael David Siegel
Michael David Siegel
answered on Sep 19, 2022

I see nothing "illegal", but it is weird.

1 Answer | Asked in Civil Rights, Constitutional Law, Personal Injury and Elder Law for Arkansas on
Q: What kind of attorney do I need to talk to about violation of ADA rights for a disabled person.

I also need answers about laws broken and other rights violated.

Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on Sep 17, 2022

An Arkansas attorney could advise best, but your question remains open for two weeks. You need to search for attorneys who handle Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) matters. You could try searching under ADA and civil rights law firms. You could check with the Arkansas Bar Association. Most... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Elder Law and Landlord - Tenant for Ohio on
Q: Removing abusive adult son from home legally?

BIL is systematically attempting to remove MIL from her home and keep it. Claims that there is verbal agreement and refusing to leave, threatening suites. How to get him out.

Moshe Toron Esq
Moshe Toron Esq
answered on Sep 10, 2022

She should hire an attorney, go to court and file for an eviction. However, she must follow the legal procedures regarding notice, etc.

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law and Estate Planning for Maryland on
Q: A relative of my elderly mother is trustee. He has been using funds personally but says she will run out of money.

He is a very ruthless attorney but presents well. He has been unresponsive to her care team and myself for replacement hearing aid at one point (which I had to fight for), he is not authorizing additional care for a fractured elbow and has instead suggested things like giving her sleeping pills,... Read more »

Mark Oakley
Mark Oakley
answered on Sep 8, 2022

Why is there a trust? Who created the trust? How was the trustee appointed? Is this a court appointed guardian as opposed to a private trustee? What is your evidence supporting your claims that the attorney and his family have taken funds for their personal use? (If this is true that is a crime--a... Read more »

2 Answers | Asked in Civil Rights, Domestic Violence, Elder Law and Identity Theft for Florida on
Q: My brother robbed us for avrything we own my mother and I are blind and we had to run for our life's the police won't he

The police say its a civil matter he robbed us with a fraudulent POA for over two hundred and fourty four thousand dollars worth of money property and assets

Charles M.  Baron
Charles M. Baron
answered on Sep 6, 2022

You did not ask a question. Re-post to state what you wish to find out or what kind of help you are seeking. Also, we see our on end says, "Orland, CA asked ... in Civil Rights, Domestic Violence, Elder Law and Identity Theft for Florida." State where the events occurred, as it's... Read more »

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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Health Care Law and Elder Law for Maryland on
Q: For medicaid payments for my dad, can my disability be used shelter his savings? Where can I find written info?

My dad's in his late 80's in NY. If he needs medicaid to pay his care, can my disability (I'm on SSDI), age 60 in MD) be used to pass his savings to me, so our family can keep it? Is it just an exemption for a house or for other assets too?

Where can I find the gov'ts... Read more »

Mark Oakley
Mark Oakley
answered on Aug 25, 2022

Your father would need to seek out an elder care lawyer to map out a strategy to protect his assets from counting towards Medicaid eligibility. Your disability is irrelevant and will not shelter his assets. He would need to get his assets out of his name five years before applying for Medicaid if... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law for Michigan on
Q: I am 91 years old. If I am home alone and get hurt will my POA get into trouble legally
Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Aug 23, 2022

No. Not unless your POA did something or failed to do something.

1 Answer | Asked in Real Estate Law, Elder Law and Probate for Alabama on
Q: My father died 12 years ago. My sister paid all his debts & all taxes on his property have been paid.

she did not file probate when he died. We want to sell his mobile home. What do we do now?

Frank Truncali
Frank Truncali
answered on Aug 21, 2022

Some additional facts are needed before an attorney can fully answer this question. For example, is the mobile home still titled in your father's name? Does this sale involve the land that the sits on? I recommend contacting a probate attorney in your area to further discuss the next steps... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Civil Rights, Constitutional Law, Elder Law and Land Use & Zoning for California on
Q: What type of attorney do I need? City code inforce, city appointed reciever took my home kept all equity? What type of l

I'm 68 retired us veteran city took my home using code inforcement. Then court appt reciever

Louis George Fazzi
Louis George Fazzi
answered on Aug 19, 2022

You should look for a lawyer with experience handling both elder abuse claims and civil rights cases. You might also contact the local ACLU office and ask for their help.

Do not delay because every moment counts.

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law and Personal Injury for California on
Q: How long do you have to file a lawsuit after a request for reasonable accomidation has been denied?
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Aug 18, 2022

what are you suing for, and why?

Are you saying a hotel refused to rent a room? if so why?

2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence, Elder Law and Family Law for California on
Q: My 65 year old retired mother is being physically, mentally and financially abused by her 49 year old husband.

She is on a fixed income and recently refinanced the home because he demanded she pay him back for the down payment which was over 20 yrs ago. She has been the only one paying mortage, utilities. Hes been there freeloading. Now hes demanding she leave, its his house. Shes not allowed to eat his... Read more »

James L. Arrasmith
James L. Arrasmith PRO label
answered on Aug 17, 2022

It surely seems like a very toxic relationship. I recommend that she get away from him as soon as possible. The longer they remain married, the more money she may owe him in spousal support (aka alimony), since she is financially supporting him during the marriage.

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2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning and Elder Law for New York on
Q: Elder law. Hello. my mother is 85 . how can I get control of her finances?

She has neglected her obligations for over 6 months. she is frail and forgetful. she's financially solvent Recently I helped her pay the following: rent arrears to the landlord's lawyers, Con Edison shut off notice, cable tv, land line phone, car insurance, car mechanic. but she cannot... Read more »

Benjamin Z. Katz
Benjamin Z. Katz
answered on Aug 15, 2022

If you believe she can understand what she is signing and wants to do so, she can sign a POA. If she does not understand or understands but does not want to, you will need to petition for guardianship. You should not try to do this without speaking with an attorney.

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