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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Adoption for New York on
Q: What happens if the biological doesn't want to sign the consent just giving a hard time , what can my wife do to proceed
Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on May 15, 2017

To adopt a child, you need to either terminate the parental rights of the relevant parents with sufficient legal/ factual basis, or have the consent of the biological parents. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation... View More

3 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Appeals / Appellate Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Could my friend's 14 year old daughter live with me if the father consents and the mother is deceased?

My girlfriend's step-brother was dating a woman with a daughter who is now 14. The mother passed away so the daughter now lives with her father. She wants to live with us because she feels better being here. Her home life is not the best because her father is an alcoholic who is verbally and... View More

Aubrey Claudius Galloway
Aubrey Claudius Galloway
answered on May 8, 2017

The answer is a YES; unless you receive something called a petition in the mail ( certified mail return receipt requested & someone has to personally attest to serve… I would recommend "nail anx mail (we can discuss that) --- Anyway, off the top of my overworked head ...... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law, Personal Injury and Adoption for New York on
Q: I was tricked into signing adoptions papers then was sued for full custody. Anything I can do?

I did not know what an adoption was nor was I informed I needed legal representation until the custody trial. She stole all my student loan money , forged papers and essentially legally stole my child.

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on May 2, 2017

The most important issue is whether you were actually tricked or just regret the decision to adopt. As for the forgery and other issues, you should provide more facts when speaking with an attorney privately.

See: http://www.aeesq.com/divorce-attorney/child-custody/

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for New York on
Q: My boyfriend wants to adopt my son how does that work?

How does it work if my boyfriend wants to adopt my son. His birth father is not involved andnot on the birth certificate and is no wheres to be located. So how would that work?

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Apr 17, 2017

The birth father needs to have his parental rights terminated by a court, and before that happens he needs to be served in person. A judge may permit service via publication if you request that. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for New York on
Q: I have two grandchildren in foster care under kingap, I was wondering how can I adopt them
Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Mar 9, 2017

See: http://ocfs.ny.gov/adopt/adopt_faq.asp

Are the parental rights of both parents terminated, or do the parents agree with the adoption? More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can...
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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for New York on
Q: which home should I do my adoption home study? how do I explain to my social work why my gf and her kids live in myhome?

i am a 42 yr old single male in Ny & live with my 52 year old girlfriend and her 2 adult kids in my new house which is in my name ,which i bought in may 2015.I did not switch my old mailing address,driver license however I do get utility bills in my name in my new home address. in 2008 after... View More

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Mar 6, 2017

It's not clear whether you're asking advice on how to cheat the system, but if so that's a bad idea because you may be charged with a crime if you try to defraud the system. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for New York on
Q: I already have FULL physical Custody of my grandbaby ....Can adopt ? And how long will it take?

The baby's mother is always manipulating to see the baby when ever she wants. If I adopt can she harrass me or continue manipulating ?

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Mar 3, 2017

Adoption in such circumstances may only happen if the parent's parental rights are terminated. See: https://www.nycourts.gov/courthelp/family/parentalRights.shtml

More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Adoption for New York on
Q: I need help I'm about to loss my child her mom remarried and want the new husband to adopted my child

Im in NY and I need someone in Tattnall County to help me

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Feb 8, 2017

You would have to agree to terminate your parental rights if they wanted to then adopt the child, and I'm guessing you wouldn't agree to that. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: I have full custody (soul) of my daughter. I was with s gut when I was in Indiana he isn't even her real father.

But he signed the bc anyway. Now we both want him off the bc. How does he voluntarily sign over his right?

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jan 30, 2017

You should consult with an Indiana lawyer. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. This answer does not constitute legal advice; make any predictions, guarantees, or warranties; or create any Attorney-Client relationship.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for New York on
Q: The national passport agency has rejected my birth certificate because it is not the original issued at my birth.

This was due to adoption. How can I obtain the original birth certificate from when I was born to my biological parents?

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jan 27, 2017

Contact the records clerk in the city where you were born for a copy of your birth certificate. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my credentials, awards, honors, testimonials, and media appearances/ publications on my law practice website.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: If a child was born before my ex-wife and I got divorced. Am I legally the father in NY state? Can I get custody?

She was living in Florida and we had sex about the time the boy was conceived. According to Florida law, he is legally my son. His maternal grandmother got guardianship in Florida and brought him back to Westchester county. I have been living in Westchester the entire time. At the time the mother... View More

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jan 27, 2017

You can file for child custody rights in NY over any child that is biologically yours, regardless of whether you were married or not at the time. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my credentials, awards, honors, testimonials, and media... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for New York on
Q: My husband wants to adopt my eldest she's almost 13 the birth father won't sign off on it and I have sole custody

He has no rights can my husband still adopt if he won't sign

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jan 26, 2017

Your husband's parental rights would have to be terminated in court prior to any adoption action, and he could object to such termination of rights. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my credentials, awards, honors, testimonials, and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for New York on
Q: My stepdaughter passed away but had a son first now they moved out of ny and we found out my grandson is being abused

Do we have rights to our grandson we live in nyc they moved to florida and just found out the father never signed an acknowledgment of paternity at my grandsons birth

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jan 26, 2017

You should contact a FL child custody lawyer about this. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. This answer does not constitute legal advice; make any predictions, guarantees, or warranties; or create any Attorney-Client relationship.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Animal / Dog Law for New York on
Q: Adopted a kitten from a freelance foster. She took my payment and gave my kitten away to another famliy. Can I sue?

She admitted she was just testing me. Even though she took my money.

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jan 24, 2017

See my answer to your identical question. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my credentials, awards, honors, testimonials, and media appearances/ publications on my law practice website. I practice law in CA, NY, MA, and DC in the following... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for New York on
Q: my daughter is 49 i married her mom when she was 2 we enrolled her in school under my name but i never adopted her. her

her license and her social security number is in my last name see whats to get a passport but they want to see adoption papers and we don't have them her birth certificate is in her birth name what do we do

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jan 19, 2017

Can she not get a passport using her own name? Why not? More facts are needed here. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me on my law practice website. This answer does not constitute legal advice; make any predictions, guarantees, or warranties;... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for New York on
Q: my husband wants to adopt my 21 year old son and give him his name, how can we do this? My son wants to do this also
Terrence H Thorgaard
Terrence H Thorgaard
answered on Nov 4, 2015

Your husband would file a petition for adoption in court.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for New York on
Q: How do I get a copy of my original birth certificate with my bio parents names in NY
Kenneth Mitchell Kaplan
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Kenneth Mitchell Kaplan
answered on Apr 23, 2011

You will have to Petition the Court to Unseal the Adoption to try to locate your Birth Certificate.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption for New York on
Q: I want to open 61 yr old ny adoption record
Kenneth Mitchell Kaplan
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Kenneth Mitchell Kaplan
answered on Apr 23, 2011

You must file a Petition to Unseal the Adoption in the jurisdiction where the Adoption took place.

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