I am having a hard time collecting my portion of his pension and 401 k. He has made offers but will not offer any paper work. I have contacted NYS Retirement Fund who state they can not help me, wrote an e-mail to the marriage division of retirement but received no response. What can I do next? My... Read more »
My husband wants a divorce. But is filing for the divorce in South Carolina, knowing i can not afford to make the trips back & forth down there. He also wants me to sign uncontested divorce papers, allowing him to have shared legal custody. I currently live in Suffolk County , NY in the same... Read more »
Under New York law (I noticed you sent your question from New Jersey), there is a statute that guides the courts in fixing child support. If you are the custodial parent, you will receive basic support based on those guidelines and child support add-ons based on the pro rata division between you...Read more »
I waived maintenance but 3 months after inquest and signing the divorce settlement agreement my medical and financial circumstances have changed drastically for the worse. I have been diagnosed with a life threatening illness and cannot work. The final divorce judgement papers have not been signed... Read more »
I believe the agreement will be binding unless you can show you entered into it under duress or were somehow incapacitated when you signed it. If you move to "vacate" or set aside the agreement, your ex will probably file a judgment of divorce and request a signed judgment incorporating the...Read more »
If you are self-represented, the judge and clerk will likely help you through it. The end result will be a judgment of divorce. I am not sure of your finances or child support but if there are financial accounts those will be addressed as well.
Back in 2012, we filed for divorce and after obtaining the index no, it was not pursued any further. Myself and my wife have tried to work things out, did not work and now decided to file for divorce. My question is the index no remained valid or it has an expiration date? I could not find the... Read more »
My husband and I have been married since 2015 yet have been together since 2012. I relocated, left my family, friends, job and job prospects to move to NY to be with him. He works with the city, has a 457 savings account, pension and 401k. I have my insurance through his employer and we have a... Read more »
My son has an upcoming custody/child and spousal support case on March 26... He had an appointment with his union lawyer for March 21 but they rescheduled it for May 9th due to the No'easter..He was told to tell them that he doesn't want to act as his own lawyer but wants to speak to a lawyer... Read more »
The reason for the court date stems from a case I took to trial and won. I was charged with Dwi and failure to take chemical test because I was a passenger. Charges dropped and now need dmv to drop suspension and fines. I was found innocent
I split from my wife 1 year ago and I want to get my divorce. We were living together only 2 years. we are 22 years old, she just finished college, and I have to quit school for taking care of here and my child. I have a job and she has one too, but I still making more money than her. Is there any... Read more »
Generally speaking, in a short term marriage alimony/maintenance is not at issue. Not sure if the child is yours and hers? If that's the case, your main issue will be custody and child support. Consult a qualified divorce attorney.
You should consult an attorney on Long Island that is qualified to answer your questions. Division of a pension is a significant aspect of your potential divorce and you should understand it. Good luck.
I have an 18yr old son who lives with me who has an order of protection against my husband and he is not living with me. We have 2 other minor children who also live with me. He is threatening to turn off utilities, cancel health insurance and take away other things unless I force my son to... Read more »
Not sure where you live, but if you go to the Family Court clerk they can be helpful and you can at least start the process yourself. I suggest also a consultation with a qualified attorney at some point because you will need the divorce. Start something soon so you can get at least some child...Read more »
Generally speaking, yes. And the custodial parent should do whatever he/she can do to facilitate the visits by speaking to the child, maybe taking the child to therapy, or start out the visits with a third party and the non-custodial parent. It would not be a good idea for the custodial parent to...Read more »
received alimony for 5 years. She just went to see about the Quadro for annuity and her attorney advised her they never finalized the divorce in the court - what action can my sister take for the attorneys' failure to complete the proceedings.
This depends. I did have a case where the child was in college living off campus. Child support paid to landlord for the child's housing. But that was an unusual case. I would suggest reaching out to a qualified family law attorney.
We were married in December 2011 and have been separated, not legally, for a long time and I have been asking for a divorce since 2015. We have a child together, he does not help me financially, he has been in training since September 2017 and I am currently unemployed. I live with my boyfriend and... Read more »
If your agreement prevents you from moving out of the area where the children live now, then he can stop you from relocating. If he has issues with the quality of your housing and/or the safety of your children, he can bring you to Family Court to change the physical custody of the children so that...Read more »
My ex is taking me to court out of spite, for child support after ten years of him telling me that my kids don't need me, my help and would be better off without me. He NEVER asks me for money or anything to help my kids. He is a truck driver, he's buying an old Amish farmhouse, has two horses, 3... Read more »
You will be responsible for child support based on your proportionate share of combined income until your children reach 21 years old unless they become emancipated at 18. His possessions will not be taken into account. However, there are nuances to each case so I recommend you have a consultation...Read more »
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