Q: ex wife committed mail fraud by opening and acting upon government issued mail to suspend ex husband license

A: Let's see if I have this straight - you move, you don't bother to update your address with DVM or your license. You then get a ticket - which you proceed to forget about because of 'stress' (and keep in mind this would be forget about for months) and don't take care of. And some how this is your ex wife's fault because she opened mail that you should have put in a forwarding address for? (and if your forward time expired that just makes you not updating your address with DMV even more agregious). Even if you could get a DA to prosecute this (which is doubtful) you should basically be to embarresed too. Had you updated your address as you are required to or not gotton the ticket in the first place or been responsible enough not to forget about it - none of this would have happened. Your best bet is to get the ticket taken care of, get your license reinstated and be more responsible in the future. One last thing, the reason why you'd likely have a hard time getting a DA to prosecute this (besides the fact that it is very petty) isn't that opening your mail isn't crime - it's that unless she is stupid enough to admit it, your odds of proving it are way less than slim and none. While she likely did open it, just because she called the cops is not necessairily proof she opened it. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know DMV gives a thirty day notice before taking suspension activity. She very well could have simply assumed it was a suspension letter and called the cops thirty days later - without ever having opened it.