Kansas City, MO asked in Family Law for Oklahoma

Q: can my 5 year old decide he doesn’t want to go to a visitation?

Ex and son have always had a rocky relationship, ex has tried to take custody unsuccessfully 3 times. When it’s time for a visitation my son bawls and says he doesn’t want to go because maddie( what my son calls my ex-husband) is mean to him. The therapist has stated it’s not good to force him to go, but legally I don’t have an option, court ordered visitations are in place. We have had a very rough past few years and I’ve tried to stay as civil as possible, but it breaks my heart when my son is forced to go.

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1 Lawyer Answer
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
Answered
  • Norman, OK
  • Licensed in Oklahoma

A: No. A five year old cannot make decisions concerning visitations. With that said, If you believe there are legitimate safety issues you should consult with an attorney to discuss options. I wish you the best of luck with your case.

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