Q: Define: "there shall be free and open communication and contact between both parents and the children at all times"
Decree says Under the parenting time arrangement. "there shall be free and open communication and contact between both parents and the children at all times" A separate "ordered and adjudged" paragraph requires us to discuss all major decisions & try our best to agree, etc. Couple pages over, a 3rd ordered and adjudged outlines the right of the parent not having custody at the moment to contact the children & defines reasonable access. He has always used the free and open communication "at all times" as I'm in contempt if I don't text him back or let him know any & everything! Even when he has them, he'll text/call to tell me about some dumb arrow he bought them & I'm in contempt if I don't communicate. It's RIDICULOUS my boys are also old enough, they have their own phones. He has free access to them at ANY time. I'm just looking for clarification, because I'm beyond exhausted from this. Thanks
A: You may want to consult with an attorney who can review your arrangement and provide you with guidance. There needs to be open communication, but that doesn’t mean you have to be texted non-stop with every little thing. Perhaps he is doing this because he knows it irritates you.
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