My parental rights were recently terminated because the judge said removing my kids wouldn't be detrimental to them

Question

However we were told by the caretakers not to throw them under the bus (which meant " Do not tell the courts that you've been spending 4 out of 7 days with the kids) so without a bonding assessment the only thing the judge looked at was that we missed 40 visits and stripped us of our rights. I plan on telling the judge that we were told it would be better  to just not say anything, when in fact I have spent a massive amount of time with my kids and they are both very close to me

James L. Arrasmith · Answer

I'm sorry you're going through this challenging situation. It's important to present all relevant information to the judge to ensure a fair evaluation of your relationship with your children. 
 
Start by gathering any evidence that shows the time you've spent with your kids, such as calendars, messages, or testimonies from friends and family. Explain to the court that you were advised by the caretakers not to disclose the extent of your visits, which led to misunderstandings about your involvement. 
 
Consider requesting a hearing to present your case, highlighting the strong bond you share with your children. You might also want to seek support from a legal professional who can help you navigate the process and advocate on your behalf. Demonstrating your commitment and the positive relationship you have with your children can make a significant difference in the outcome.

Q: My parental rights were recently terminated because the judge said removing my kids wouldn't be detrimental to them