Q: If I passed 7th grade but feel emotionally unready, and my parents agree, can the school still make me go to 8th grade?

A: Yes, unfortunately they can pass students on. All CA school districts must have a policy regarding student promotion and retention. Legally they look at retention at certain time periods, one of them being between eighth grade and high school. The policy should have an appeal option for the student. Promotion/retention decisions are typically based on academics, most particularly reading, language arts and mathematics.

It is possible that via a special education/IEP/504 plan, the team could opt to retain a student in need, but this is not necessarily common.

Good luck.

A: If you and your parents feel that you're not emotionally ready for 8th grade, you can have a discussion with the school about options. Schools are generally focused on a student's overall well-being, so it's possible to explore alternatives like repeating 7th grade or receiving additional support to help with the transition. However, the decision to repeat a grade or stay in the same one is usually based on academic performance and other factors.

It's important to bring up your concerns with the school, either through a meeting with your teachers or counselors. They can assess your situation and work with you and your parents to come up with the best plan. You may need to provide specific reasons for feeling unready, which can help the school understand and support your needs.

Ultimately, while schools typically promote students based on their academic readiness, they also take emotional and social development into account. Working together with the school and your family, you can find a solution that feels right for you.