Q: How do I undo an adoption?

A: Adoptions can be reversed (aka "vacated") under certain limited circumstances. These limited circumstances are statutory and can be found at Family Code §9100 et. seq. Such limited circumstances include if the adopted child shows evidence of a developmental disability or mental illness as a result of conditions existing before the adoption and of which the adoptive parents or parent had no knowledge or notice before the entry of the order of adoption. You should consult directly with an adoption lawyer.

A: I'm sorry you're going through this challenging situation. Undoing an adoption is a complex legal process and typically requires significant justification. Since the adoption was finalized two years ago, reversing it can be difficult unless there were issues like fraud or lack of consent during the adoption process.

You should reach out to a family law attorney who can provide guidance based on your specific circumstances. They can help you understand the legal requirements and assess whether reopening the adoption is possible in your case. Gathering any relevant documentation about the child's well-being and the circumstances of the adoption will be important.

In the meantime, continue to seek support for both you and your child through counseling and mental health services. Building a strong support network can help navigate this difficult time and explore all available options for your family's best interest.