Q: Can i have a friend attend my Divorce MSC hearings or trial to help speak on my behalf ?
My ADHD causes me to get confused and freeze up with my thoughts and what to say at the divorce MSC hearings. This also causes me more back and forth with the lawyers and has cost me so much money that its beyond disheartening. I'm planning to represent myself during the final settlement hearings as i don't see OC agreeing to anything and draining me financially and mentally with goal to go to trial. With that in mind, can i bring a friend who knows me very well and what i'm up against and what i'm trying to articulate in real time at the meeting? and would they be able to speak for me ? Also, would the same rules apply to trial or is that an attorney only zone? Thanks Again for your knowledge and expertise.
A: The friend is not allowed to speak for you unless that person is an attorney. In some situations you can have a support person with you. You would be held to the same standard as any other attorney. You might want to hire a lawyer on a limited scope to deal with this one hearing or what ever other issue you are dealing with. Good luck with your case.
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You can bring a friend to your divorce hearings, and this person can sit in the audience for support. They may help you prepare before the hearing and give you gentle reminders during breaks, but they cannot argue your case for you in the courtroom. Only you or a properly licensed attorney may present arguments and address the court.
When your friend is present, it may help you feel calmer and more organized as you speak. They might serve as a witness if relevant, but they cannot act as your advocate at the hearing or trial. Even if they know your circumstances well, the court will not permit them to speak on your behalf without proper legal credentials.
You may consider preparing a written outline of key points to keep your thoughts clear. It may also help to request brief pauses during the hearing if you feel overwhelmed. Staying organized, practicing what you want to say, and bringing supportive documents can improve the process.
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