Q: What are my legal rights regarding involvement with my children under my mom's guardianship?

A: Even if your children are under your mother’s guardianship or in voluntary foster care, you still have legal rights as their parent—as long as your parental rights haven’t been terminated by a court. You have the right to be informed about their medical care, education, and general well-being. The court or child welfare agency that handled their placement should have explained your role and what you’re entitled to, including how and when you can see your children.

If you were unaware that your children were placed into voluntary foster care, that’s a serious issue. You can request copies of the court orders or case plans to better understand what kind of guardianship your mother has and what conditions you need to meet to increase your involvement. It’s also within your rights to ask the caseworker or the agency for scheduled visits, even if weekends aren’t possible right now. Being denied contact without a clear legal reason could be challenged, especially if no court order says you can’t see them.

It’s understandable that you’re feeling overwhelmed, but your effort to stay involved still matters. Try to re-engage with the required services, not just for the court’s sake, but to show your children you’re still fighting for them. You’re not powerless—start by asking for a copy of the guardianship papers and speaking with someone at the agency handling the case. Every small step you take now can help you rebuild that bond with your daughters. They need to know you’re still in this.