Can I use a hammer to intimidate if a neighbor tries to hit me with a car?

Question

I have experienced multiple instances where a neighbor in my friend's neighborhood deliberately tried to hit my car with theirs. Despite filing a report, the police have said there's nothing they can do. The most recent event involved the individual attempting to hit my car three times, captured on security video from two businesses. Although I managed to avoid damage and injury by swerving and hard braking, the person continued to follow me. I am worried he will try to do this again. Can I use a hammer to intimidate him to leave me alone if he tries to hit me with his car again?

James L. Arrasmith · Answer

It’s understandable that you feel threatened and want to protect yourself, especially since the situation has escalated multiple times. However, using a hammer to intimidate your neighbor could put you in legal jeopardy, even if you never strike them. Displaying or threatening with a weapon can be seen as assault or brandishing, and that could turn the focus away from your neighbor’s actions and onto yours. 
 
The law generally allows you to defend yourself if you are in immediate danger, but the force you use must be reasonable in relation to the threat. Since your neighbor is using a car, the safest and most effective response is to avoid confrontation, keep gathering video evidence, and continue reporting each incident. You already have strong proof from security cameras, which is far more valuable in holding him accountable than trying to intimidate him directly. 
 
Your next step should be to document every occurrence and push for further action through the police or a protective order, especially since repeated attempts to ram your car show a pattern of dangerous behavior. If you fear for your safety, you may also want to adjust your routes temporarily and notify local businesses or neighbors to keep watch. By focusing on lawful methods, you protect yourself both physically and legally while building a stronger case against him.

Q: Can I use a hammer to intimidate if a neighbor tries to hit me with a car?