Q: How can I address harassment and gain visitation rights in SC?

A: It sounds like you’re in a painful and frustrating situation, especially since you’ve been supporting your child financially but have been denied any contact. In South Carolina, paying child support does not automatically give you visitation rights, but you do have the legal right to request them through the family court. Since there is no custody or visitation order in place, the court can establish one and set clear guidelines for communication and parenting time. The court’s primary concern will be the best interests of the child, but your consistent financial support and effort to stay involved will work in your favor.

To begin, you can file a petition in family court to establish custody and visitation. This will allow a judge to formally review your case and issue an order granting you time with your child. Once a court order is in place, the mother cannot legally block your access or use threats to intimidate you. Be sure to keep copies of all messages, threats, and any evidence of harassment, as this documentation can help show a pattern of interference and bad faith on her part. You can also request that the court limit her contact with you outside of matters involving your child if the harassment continues.

As for the online harassment and threats, you can report them to law enforcement if they cross the line into intimidation, doxing, or harassment. South Carolina law allows you to seek a restraining order for harassment or stalking if the behavior persists. By filing for visitation and addressing the harassment at the same time, you take back control of the situation and create legal boundaries that protect both you and your child. Taking these steps will help ensure your relationship with your child is recognized and protected by the court.