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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Real Estate Law for New York on
Q: Are unclaimed heritage something thrustfull?

An American Lawyer contacted me to say that they found out I have an unclaimed heritage (I'm Italian) by a aunt that died almost 20 years ago. They didn't gave me too much details but they made the last name of my grandmother. They told me the state of new york holds the money of the... View More

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answered on Jul 14, 2023

Go to the following website. Search for the relative and follow the procedures to file a claim. You will need documentation showing your relationship to the decedent. You may need to hire a genealogist.

https://www.osc.state.ny.us/unclaimed-funds

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: In New York, what does a child support trial consist of?

The original court order was established in 2017. We submitted our Financials (three years tax returns, W2's, 3 recent pay checks) The magistrate came up with a number and that was it. I filed for a modified recently and the non custodial parent tried to get my petition dismissed. The... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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answered on Jul 13, 2023

A trial is where the Petitioner presents their case and the Respondent defends. The Petitioner calls witnesses and presents evidence and the Respodent can cross examine the Petitioner and the witnesses. The Respodent can call witnesses and present evidence. It is a good idea to hire an attorney... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Personal Injury and Education Law for New York on
Q: Preschool left my son unattended by a major road not holding his hand or watching him for about a minute and I seen it

Me and two other people witnessed my son 4 years old walking near a major road with his group and his hand wasn’t being held and wasn’t being watched for about a minute and he could’ve went into the street and got hit by a car or something could’ve happened etc

Jonathan R. Ratchik
Jonathan R. Ratchik
answered on Jul 12, 2023

The civil justice system only provides a remedy for harm that has occurred, not harm that might have occurred. Fortunately, your son was not harmed. Speak with the principal and teacher at your son's school and tell them what you observed so that it does not happen again (either to your son... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for New York on
Q: I filed for child support i2 year ago and have not received a final termination by the Court in Manhattan.

I believe the father contested the determination but no response from Judge after that. What can I do?

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answered on Jul 7, 2023

If you have filed for child support and have not received a final termination by the Court in Manhattan, it is recommended to follow up on the status of your case. You can contact the Clerk's Office of the court where you filed the case to inquire about any updates or next steps. They should... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Probate for New York on
Q: Can my mom just cut me out of my parents will? she has POA over my dad. Will has not changed for 20 years.mom is abuse

My mom is sociopath gold digger. She abused my dad 50 yrs resulting in his aphasia and dementia. Can my mom change my parents will to cut my young daughter out? My mom hates women and children, she is undiagnosed sociopath. How can I protect my daughter's inheritance from my Dad's side of... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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answered on Jul 1, 2023

A person can always change their own will as long as they are of sound mind. Assuming your parents have separate wills and your father has dementia, his will likely can not be changed unless he does it himself while he is lucid.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Landlord - Tenant for New York on
Q: My parents sent me to utah to a program for disabled adults i'm not disabled and I’m and adult and I wanna go home

I don't own the house but my drivers license says my NY adress on it they are saying they will call police for trespassing if I return to ny can I return home to my primary residence without any legal trouble.

Howard E. Knispel
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answered on Jun 29, 2023

If you are an adult your parents have a right to keep you out of their home.

3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Immigration Law for New York on
Q: Can I get a marriage agreement between me and my husband allowing me to fully be dismissed of affidavits if any adultery

Like can I get a agreement written up and sign by both parties to fully free me of my affidavit obligations to support my spouse in the case he leave this marriage or lied to get a green card or have a baby while still married outside the marriage or if we separated or divorced if we was to both... View More

Francesco Paolo Tini
Francesco Paolo Tini
answered on Jun 29, 2023

You can provide in an agreement that you both waive any spousal support, whether temporary or permanent, provided it is in a proper form just like a deed. However, there are exceptions: sometimes you could have an agreement that is a complete waiver of support , but you may still have to support... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: does NY Family Court consider it a conflict of interest if a child's therapist saw a parent 10 years earlier

I have an 11 y/o daughter in joint custody with the birth mother.

My girl is seeing a therapist who was agreed upon by both parents.

The mother has attempted to stop the therapy using various specious arguments, which have failed.

Her latest is that the therapist once (over... View More

Francesco Paolo Tini
Francesco Paolo Tini
answered on Jun 29, 2023

I would say yes. it is a conflict, and I would make a motion to disqualify the therapist. of course, the judge has the last say, but I feel strongly enough about this that I would appeal it.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New York on
Q: Is Motion To Dismiss One Way To Beat Temporary Protection Order? Or Is Onus On Petitioner To Prove Respondent's Guilt?

I sent an eight page PDF to Family Court, detailing why I'm not violent and demonstrating how my ex-wife lies to get what she wants. I refute two offense claims she makes in the Temp Order Of Protection. Or is the burden more on her, to prove what she is accusing me of?

Francesco Paolo Tini
Francesco Paolo Tini
answered on Jun 29, 2023

You should absolutely look into whether there are basis for a dismissal. Ultimately the Petitioner has the burden of proof, but it is somewhat a low burden (preponderance of the evidence). Consult a lawyer because Art. 8 of the Family Court has strict requirements as to Petitions for O.P. and... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Should I file for sole custody before filing for divorce?

My estranged husband agreed to signing the divorce papers if I paid for them. I paid for them (online over $300).

When asked about parental planning he wanted no part in the discussion or decision. On multiple occasions he's said he did not want to coparent. He is no longer paying... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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answered on Jun 23, 2023

This is why you should have hired a lawyer. Submitting divorce papers without both signatures will simply be rejected. You can start separate custody and support actions in Family Court. However, a contested divorce can accomplish all of it. You do not need your husband's cooperation but you... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Bankruptcy, Family Law and Child Support for New York on
Q: Why did I receive form 309A when my son's dad (who I never married & have not been with for 17 years) filed bankruptcy?

I live in ny with my son who just turned 18 and will be attending college in the fall. My son's father (we were never married) has lived in Alabama for the past year but still pays the same $50/month in child support that he has for the past 17 years. I just received a form 309A in the mail... View More

Timothy Denison
Timothy Denison
answered on Jun 20, 2023

It should not affect your son at all. YOu received the 309 because he owes you a domestic support obligation. Child support is still due and owing even with a bankruptcy and cannot be discharged.

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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning and Family Law for New York on
Q: Do stepchildren (not adopted) have any rights to my property if their mother dies before me in NY State?

If I die before my wife, she'll get all my accounts, property... and she'll do whatever she wants. But if she dies first, I want to protect my accounts and property from her son and daughter. We have a prenuptial agreement, the property is in my name, the bank accounts I refer to are in my name.

Michael David Siegel
Michael David Siegel
answered on Jun 15, 2023

If the assets have the value you are stating, then it is worth actually having a lawyer review everything. However, based solely on your post, your stepchildren inherit nothing if their mother dies first. However, you can do a trust, giving your wife lifetime income, to insure she does not pass... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Civil Rights for New York on
Q: What can I do if the judge made an order during a conference with no motion before him?

Supreme Court judge called a “conference” because my ex’s attorney sent him an email/letter requesting his intervention in the choosing of our children’s pediatrician. The letter had specific requests much like a motion would but it was just a letter.

At the conference, the judge... View More

Francesco Paolo Tini
Francesco Paolo Tini
answered on Jun 29, 2023

A Judge has the ability to calendar a case whenever the Judge finds good cause to do so, but it has to be on notice. If the orders include custody decisions and or visitation issues without a hearing, you most likely have an appealable issue. you must file an emergency motion with the Appellate... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: my ex girlfriend wants a dna test after 13 years. What can I do?

When I was with my ex girlfriend she was sleeping around with another guy and she got pregnant. She told me that the child wasn’t mine and she put the other guys last name. Now after 13 years she wants a dna test. What can I do to avoid going to court.

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Jun 13, 2023

Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to stop your ex from filing papers in court. However, this may be a case for equitable estopple to prevent you from having to pay child support. You need to speak with an attorney about the facts of the case and to represent you if this does go to court.

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning and Family Law for New York on
Q: My mother was the beneficiary for my great aunt, while cleaning the house I found some money that was undocumented is th

Is the money mine?

Gary B. Cornick
Gary B. Cornick
answered on Jun 12, 2023

I am sorry to hear of your loss. Money found in your great aunt's home would likely be deemed an asset of her estate to be distributed in accordance with the terms of her Will or, if she did not have a Will, in accordance with the relevant State's intestacy statute.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Collections for New York on
Q: My mother was the only one on my great aunt’s will, and while cleaning I found some money and it wasn’t documented is it

Is the money mine?

Barry W. Kaufman
Barry W. Kaufman
answered on Jun 10, 2023

No, it's not yours. You know it's not yours, it's your mother's.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for New York on
Q: if divorce finalizes before the Order of Protection hearing, does it turn into a criminal case instead of family case?

My divorce judgement was signed by the judge already, just waiting to receive it myself. There's a good chance I get it before the temporary order of protection hearing, will that affect the hearing at all? Can it turn into a criminal matter seeing as technically we're no longer family?

Sandra M. Colatosti
Sandra M. Colatosti
answered on Jun 9, 2023

The case will not turn into a criminal matter unless there was a criminal court matter.

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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law, Tax Law and Probate for New York on
Q: I am my father's estate administrator. How and when can I be reimbursed for admin costs?

Can I reimburse myself prior to filing his estate taxes?

Michael David Siegel
Michael David Siegel
answered on Jun 8, 2023

You can reimburse yourself as you go, but the disbursements are not approved and subject to clawback until you have a final accounting approved, or waivers from all parties. Your lawyer should know this. If you do not have one, and money is tight, it might be a good idea to have a lawyer.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for New York on
Q: When calculating child support, will the magistrate take over time into consideration as income earned?

The non custodial parent has worked over time consistently over a time span of at least 6 years which can easily be proven because his income is public record. When calculating child support in NY, will the magistrate use the overtime or the base salary of the non custodial parent who will be... View More

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answered on Jun 6, 2023

If overtime is available, the court will consider it for support purposes. If the non-custodial parent can prove there is no more overtime the court might not consider if the stoppage of overtime is not the result of the non-custodial parent's action.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: What is my legal obligation to answering the phone of my abusive wife since we have a kid together
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Jun 6, 2023

You have no obligation to answer the phone.

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