Q: No cs in over 3yrs. Do i need consent for my fiancee to adopt my son? After we are married of course?
Ex husband has not had contact in 5yrs and hasn't paid child support in over 3yrs. My son is 6yrs old. My fiancee wants to adopt. What would be the process after we are married? My exhusband was very abusive towards me while we were married and while i was pregnant. When we divorced he signed the papers giving me full legal and sole custody. Thank you in advance for your advice.
A: Your options in this matter are complex and not easily resolved. A lawyer that approaches your ex-husband with courtesy, and sound knowledge of the law in this area, may obtain the outcome you seek. It is often better for someone else to speak with an ex, especially one where there has been such little contact in such a long period of time in order to resolve this situation amicably. Too hard a sell and either he will balk completely or he will demand his rights - yes, even having abandoned his son. You may wish to contact an attorney to discuss your options.
A: You need to contact an attorney to get the process started. You need to also determine if the father will willingly sign papers surrendering his rights. If he will sign it makes it much easier. If he won't, it can still be accomplished, it just gets a little more complicated. Frankly, adoptions can be very confusing even for attorney's who regularly practice in family law. Find an attorney you are comfortable with and retain them to get this accomplished for you. Good luck.
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