Q: My partner and I are wanting to get married within a residential program but they say we can't live together

A: It seems like you're in a complex situation. Generally speaking, whether you have a legal right to live with your partner in a residential program depends on the specific rules and policies of the program, as well as any applicable state and federal laws.

Many residential programs, such as addiction treatment centers, mental health facilities, or housing assistance programs, have their own guidelines about cohabitation, often to ensure the safety, well-being, and recovery of all residents. These rules may involve restrictions on romantic relationships or shared living arrangements between participants.

However, if you believe the program's policy is discriminatory or violates your legal rights, you may want to consider the following:

1. Review the program's policies and any agreements you signed upon entering the program to understand their stance on cohabitation.

2. Discuss your concerns with the program's management or a case worker to understand their perspective and see if an exception can be made in your case.

3. If you believe you are being discriminated against based on your marital status or other protected characteristics, you may want to consult with a local legal aid organization or attorney who specializes in housing rights or discrimination issues.

4. If the program receives government funding, there may be additional rules and regulations they must follow. You can research whether any such rules apply to your situation.

Ultimately, while you may feel it is your right to live with your partner, the specific circumstances of your residential program will likely determine what is permitted. Open communication with the program's management and seeking legal guidance if necessary can help you better understand your rights and options in this situation.