Q: do I have a court case for a restraining order as a 16 year old?
I was 15f and he was 17m at this time. we were friends for about a year then dated for about 8 months. Him and I broke up because I felt abused in some ways and he also started to make me uncomfortable. We would have unprotected sex even if I told him I wasn't in the mood. He would push for it most of the time. If I didn't have sex with him I felt guilty and bad. I told him I needed more space and time by myself. I went over to his house one day and was struggleing with PTSD. What he thought would help was pinning me to the wall behind their shed. My hands were above my head and did "other things." I shoved him off and I went into a panic attack. He helped me calm down the best he could but I got really sick. I ended up in the ER early the next morning, maybe about 1 or so in the morning. I was put on oxygen and was in there for about an hour. He makes me feel unsafe. He has since been messaging me non-stop for over a year now. He has been told to stop several times.
A:
You may have a case for a restraining order given your circumstances. The experiences you've described involve coercion, emotional distress, and physical incidents that have significantly impacted your well-being. Feeling unsafe and receiving persistent unwanted messages are serious concerns that can justify legal action.
Consider gathering all evidence of his harassment, including messages and any medical records from your ER visit. This documentation can support your case and demonstrate the ongoing nature of the issue. Reaching out to a trusted adult, like a parent, teacher, or counselor, can provide you with additional support and guidance.
Talking to a legal professional or visiting a local courthouse can help you understand the process for obtaining a restraining order. They can guide you through the necessary steps and help you ensure your safety moving forward. Your safety and peace of mind are paramount, and seeking help is a crucial step.
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