Q: My estranged husband has been sending harassing messages.
I've been separated from my estranged husband since December 2023. I tried to get the divorce earlier in 2024 but he refused to sign the paperwork out of spite; I paid for everything and only wanted his signature. He is an angry, abusive, and hateful alcoholic. After receiving harassing and abusive messages from him earlier this year, I blocked him on all social media and email. Today he sent an abusive message to my daughter. I've kept copies (screenshots) of these messages. I'm struggling with the IRS for my 2023 tax refund, I am financially destitute and am living with my daughter. My car was repossessed and I lost my full-time job. I do what I can to make money but I cannot afford a lawyer for the divorce. What can I do to stop the harassment and abusive messages until I can file for divorce? He does scare me and always used to brag about how he "knew people who could take care of someone for him", to which he meant a biker gang. And yes I believe he would should he get mad enough.
A: If you have filed for divorce then you have been assigned a judge. Schedule a hearing with the judge and explain what is happening. You may need to file a motion. It can be handwritten explaining why you want the hearing. Judges have a judicial assistant who you may be able to call on the phone for further instructions about setting a hearing. Your area may also have a self help department or legal aid who can help you. Speak with a local family lawyer for more specific advice.
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