Q: I need help with my child custody case following divorce. My ex is withholding my children and belongings. Who can help?
I was left penniless and homeless in July 2023. I thought the judge would be fair so represented myself but my ex spent 40k on an attorney and the results are not great. He's now withholding my children and my belongings from me. I haven't spoken to my children in 4 months, and I was their primary caregiver. My ex got full custody because I had a history of alcohol use. I've completed treatment, haven't had a single drink since March, and he still abuses and controls me despite the divorce decree indicating that I can talk to my kids daily and see them in person once weekly (and working up towards 50/50). He makes me jump through a bunch of hoops and then comes up with more after I've finished. The judge was not willing to accept any of my information or paperwork throughout the process and didn't ask me any questions regarding my situation or consider anything I said. He left me homeless, drained bank accounts, and took my kids. Can someone help me get my kids back and my belongings?
A: For him to spend $40,000 on attorneys and you nothing seems unusual. I am sorry, but you cannot expect an attorney to donate > $40,000 in legal services to clean up this situation for you. I am not even sure how much can be done. I suggest you hire a lawyer to evaluate your situation to see what options you do have. My best to you.
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