Q: Can I submit documentation to the judge amid a divorce with a no-contact order?
My son is in the process of divorcing his wife, and there is a no-contact order between them. The divorce was filed in July 2024. I am the intermediary for child pick-up and drop-off. My son has filed all required documents, including a financial affidavit, but his wife has not filed any paperwork despite a request from his attorney for her to produce documents. No further action has been taken to address this.
I am concerned about our grandchild's well-being, as his mother isn't dressing him appropriately despite my son providing ample clothing and shoes. Recently, the school contacted her for permission to meet with my son regarding school matters, highlighting issues with his access to information.
Additionally, my son is confused about child support payments. He prefers to pay through the court to ensure payments are recognized as child support and not gifts, but no guidance has been given, given the no-contact order.
Can I submit a letter to the judge documenting these concerns and conversations?
A: No, you cannot submit a letter to the court. You son can address any concerns he has with his attorney.
Joshua Schiffer agrees with this answer
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I concur with my colleague and advise you to work with and through your sons attorney, as while the Courts do appreciate the additional perspective of grandparents, the communications must respect existing orders regarding contact and it is best practices to ensure compliance rather than risk violation.
Your son's lawyer will hopefully appreciate your efforts and include them in the overall advocacy.
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