Q: Should I file for divorce in Columbus, GA or wait to move back to Atlanta as my husband insists?
I have been married for seven years and have a six-year-old child with my husband. We currently live in Columbus, GA due to my residency training, which will end in June. My husband wants us to move back to Atlanta, where we lived before. Due to a cycle of abuse primarily related to my desire to work, I asked for a divorce. He insists that we should only divorce after returning to Atlanta. I am concerned about why he insists on this. Should I stay in Columbus to file for divorce, where I might find it easier to get primary custody since our child is adjusted to his school here, or should I move back to Atlanta and file there as he wishes? I prefer a peaceful divorce and want us to be good co-parents. What are my options in this situation?
A:
Given the situation, filing for divorce in Columbus, where you currently live, might be your best option, especially since your child is adjusted to their school and environment there. Courts tend to consider the child's current living situation and stability when making custody decisions. Filing in Columbus could strengthen your case for primary custody if the child’s well-being and continuity of education are factors the court prioritizes.
If you were to move back to Atlanta and file there, it could complicate things, especially if your child is well-settled in Columbus. Your husband's insistence on filing in Atlanta could be a way to influence the situation in his favor, but it's important to focus on what is best for your child and your peace of mind.
If you're concerned about abuse and your safety, it's also crucial to consider your well-being during this process. If you feel that your husband may use the move to manipulate the situation, you should take steps to protect yourself and consult a lawyer to understand the full implications of filing in either location. Always prioritize your safety and your child's stability.
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