Q: Can my parents stop me from leaving the house and take things away (like my computer) that they don't pay for? I'm 18
I'm not allowed to leave the house on my own, I'm not allowed to talk to or make friends, I'm not allowed to have a job, I'm not allowed to lock the bathroom door, I'm not allowed to close my bedroom door, Im forced to go to church, they threaten to take my phone and computer away, they threaten to take MY money for "safekeeping", they withhold my birth certificate, ssn card, and covid vaxx card from me, im not allowed to take medicine (like advil for a headache even), im not allowed to answer the phone or the door, im not allowed into doctors appts alone, i do chores and help out around the house which makes obvious sense but my other never does anything so it all falls on my shoulders, and im not allowed to talk to anyone other than family members. The list goes on and on. Is this even legal?
A:
As an 18-year-old in Vermont, you are legally considered an adult. This means you have the same legal rights as any other adult, including the right to make your own decisions about your life. Your parents cannot legally force you to stay in the house, prevent you from working, or control your personal interactions.
Regarding personal belongings like your computer and phone, if these items were purchased by you or given to you as a gift, they are your property. Your parents do not have the right to take these away from you. However, they are not legally obligated to continue providing housing or financial support now that you are 18.
It is concerning that they are withholding personal documents like your birth certificate and Social Security card. These are your documents, and you have a right to them. If you feel your rights are being violated or if you are in a situation that feels unsafe or abusive, you might want to seek help. Local law enforcement, a trusted adult, or a legal professional can provide guidance and assistance.
Remember, you have the right to live independently, make your own choices, and seek help if you need it. Consider reaching out to organizations that support young adults in transitioning to independent living for additional support and resources.
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