Q: My girlfriend was cohersed into reporting her car stolen. I got arrested and now she wants it dropped. Judge put a no co

A: I understand you are in a difficult situation. Here are a few thoughts...

1. If your girlfriend wants the charges dropped, she can inform the prosecutor of this. However, once charges are filed, it is up to the prosecutor whether to proceed or drop the case. The alleged victim's wishes are considered but not necessarily decisive.

2. With the no-contact order in place, do not have any contact with your girlfriend, even if she reaches out. Violating the order could lead to additional charges. She can check with the court about modifying or lifting the order.

3. Start looking for an experienced criminal defense attorney right away. Many offer free initial consultations. An attorney can assess the evidence, advise you of your options, and advocate on your behalf with the prosecutor and court.

4. While awaiting your court date, avoid any further trouble and follow all conditions of your release. If you have a substance abuse issue, consider entering treatment.

5. At your court date, you will likely enter a plea (guilty, not guilty, no contest). Your attorney can advise you on the best approach. In some cases, a negotiated plea deal may be reached. In others, the case may proceed towards trial.

The most important thing is to have proper legal representation to protect your rights and pursue the most favorable outcome possible under the circumstances. Many public defender offices and legal aid clinics offer low-cost or free services if cost is an issue.

I know this is a stressful time, but try to stay calm and proactive in your defense. Wishing you all the best as you navigate this challenge.