Q: my ex's girlfriend keep me from having video visits with our girls the judge ordered she won't give them the phone

The judge in Jackson county Oregon made a judgement of video visits 2xaweek and my ex's girlfriend only has a phone in the house and she goes on there won't give them the phone to visit me and says they don't love u they don't want to talk to you and hangs up or sometimes no answer at all what can I do and they are not married also he has sole custody of our girls but I got video visits

1 Lawyer Answer

A: The language of the parenting plan controls your visitation with your kids. The ex's girlfriend does not get a say in your relationship with your children.

You need to document what is occurring. After you have some documentation, you can go to the Jackson County Courthouse and ask to speak with the family law clerk. Ask for the forms to enforce parenting time. The court should have an expedited procedure. Complete the paperwork, serve your ex, and then go to the hearing with your documentation.

Your ex is responsible as the parent of ensuring that you have a relationship with the children. His GF does not get to run interference. If the ex continues denying you video visits, your next step is to file a contempt action.

Good luck.

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