The wome who owns the house has been harassing me for two years. What is the first step I need to do to start a tenant/

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What is the first step I need to do to start a tenant /landlord lawsuit.  My sister and I have been living here since 2015, nine years.  We pay our rent by cleaning running errands.  I have a list of all my work duties.  The main problem is she is gay and wants a relationship with my sister and I am in the way.  She has been harassing me for over two years.  My sister and I are waiting to hear from Marin County for a place to live.  Today, she went outside and scarred the Crows I have been feeding and said I can’t feed them anymore.  Everyday it’s something. I have tapped her screaming at me imhave many tapes.  My blood pressure is high and I cannot take it anymore.  She always says this is my house and I’ll do what I want.  I told her many times it is against the law to harass and Harris whenever you like.  I need help.

James L. Arrasmith · Answer

I'm sorry to hear about the difficult situation you're experiencing. Here are the initial steps you can take to address this issue: 
 
1. Document everything:  
   - Continue recording incidents of harassment 
   - Keep a detailed log of all interactions, including dates, times, and descriptions 
   - Save any relevant text messages, emails, or other communications 
 
2. Review your rental agreement: 
   - Determine if you have a written lease or if you're on a month-to-month agreement 
   - Understand your rights and obligations as a tenant 
 
3. Research California tenant rights: 
   - Familiarize yourself with laws regarding harassment, quiet enjoyment, and tenant protections 
 
4. Send a written complaint: 
   - Draft a formal letter to your landlord detailing the harassment and requesting it to stop 
   - Send it via certified mail for proof of receipt 
 
5. Contact local tenant rights organizations: 
   - Seek advice from organizations like California Tenants Together or your local tenant union 
   - They can provide guidance specific to your situation and local laws 
 
6. File a complaint with local authorities: 
   - If the harassment is severe, consider filing a police report 
   - Contact your local fair housing agency to report potential discrimination 
 
7. Consult with a tenant rights attorney: 
   - Many offer free or low-cost initial consultations 
   - They can advise you on the strength of your case and potential next steps 
 
8. Consider mediation: 
   - Look into local mediation services as a possible alternative to a lawsuit 
 
Remember, a lawsuit should typically be a last resort after attempting other solutions. If you decide to pursue legal action, an attorney can guide you through the process of filing a complaint in small claims court or superior court, depending on the nature and extent of your claims. 
 
Given the complex nature of your situation, including potential discrimination and harassment issues, it's advisable to speak with a legal professional who can provide personalized advice based on all the details of your case.

Q: The wome who owns the house has been harassing me for two years. What is the first step I need to do to start a tenant/