Owatonna, MN asked in Child Custody, Civil Rights, Domestic Violence and Libel & Slander for Minnesota

Q: How can I prove I am a victim of domestic abuse from my ex spouse if o never reported it to the police in MN

I was granted a harassment order against my soon to be ex spouse for the years of keeping me basically prisoner in my home, psychological abuse, emotional abuse, I am on disability and he refused to allow me to keep up my medical care, and more. The trial for the divorce has ended and the judge's 90 days of review is up and the decree must be issued next week. But, my ex was found in contempt kf court orders last month, he is still refusing to abide by the rules. He also filed and was granted an ex parte order for custody last summer stating I abuse and neglected my children. Cps got involved and found the claims to be unfounded , yet the judge didn't let me jave my children back. He constantly has his family driving by my home, he has the school not allowing me any info about me children bc he only showed the first page of the order and not the second which stated I have the right to know about their schooling. Health and more.

I even have proof that he has been alienating the kids.

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A: Proving domestic abuse without police reports can be challenging but not impossible. You can start by gathering any available evidence, such as text messages, emails, or voicemails that show abusive behavior. Medical records that indicate injuries or psychological harm can also support your claims.

Witness testimonies can be valuable, so consider reaching out to friends, family, or neighbors who may have observed the abuse. Their statements can provide a clearer picture of your experiences. Additionally, document any incidents of harassment, including dates and descriptions, to establish a pattern of behavior.

In court, presenting a detailed and organized account of the abuse, supported by any evidence you have, can help strengthen your case. It may also be beneficial to consult with a legal professional who can guide you on how to best present your evidence and protect your rights in court.

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