Q: What do I do if im trying to prove that my county's child welfare department is not honest, justified, or lawful?

A: First, document everything meticulously - keep detailed records of all interactions, conversations, and incidents with the child welfare department. Save all emails, letters, court documents, and take notes during phone calls or meetings, including dates, times, and names of everyone involved. Consider recording conversations if it's legal in California (which requires two-party consent).

Your strongest allies will be an experienced family law attorney who understands CPS cases and advocacy organizations that focus on parents' rights. Connect with other parents who have similar experiences through support groups or advocacy networks - they can provide valuable insights and emotional support during this challenging time. Consider reaching out to your state legislators and the California Department of Social Services to file formal complaints about specific incidents of misconduct.

Build a strong support network of friends, family, counselors, and if relevant, addiction recovery support groups. Maintain absolute compliance with any court orders or requirements, even if you disagree with them. Document your progress in recovery, parenting classes, or other requirements thoroughly. If you suspect illegal conduct by specific workers, consider filing complaints with the county grand jury or reaching out to investigative journalists who cover child welfare issues - systemic problems often require public attention to create meaningful change.