Milwaukee, WI asked in Criminal Law, Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for Minnesota

Q: If I have a an HRO against me, is it a violation to have the other party served court paperwork by mail in Minnesota?

My ex husband has an HRO against me. He has been withholding my children and wrongfully denying me my parenting time for two and half months which is in violation of our court order. I submitted a motion for parenting time assistance to family court to ask them to enforce our current court order. I was told by the county clerk that I could serve him myself or do service by mail. Obviously because of the HRO I had him served by mail. He then reported me to the police for violating the HRO. Is having a protected party served with a motion for family court considered an HRO violation?

He and his wife have also lied and reported false information to law enforcement claiming that I called them and threatened to take the children which never happened.

1 Lawyer Answer

A: Best practice for a person with a Harassment Restraining Order prohibiting contact with anothe rperson would be to avoid contact, whether direct or indirect. In practice, such a person may end up in the same courtroom during or waiting for a court hearing, for example. And that would not be contact that would violate to the court's "No Contact Order" in the HRO. Similarly, having the person served a copy of legal pleadings or documents to be filed with the court, would not be not be contact that would violate to the court's "No Contact Order" in the HRO. But, as you suggest, it would be best to avoid personally serving them the legal papers. Instead, having the Sheriff serve them, or a private process server, or service by mail if permissible, would be better because those would avoid any personal proximity. As for false claims, one can try to get evidence contradicting them, and can challenge them in court.

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