Q: Can I come out publicly against an ex for abuse if they put a no contact warning against you?
Let's say an ex had a cop gave you a no contact warning. You want to open up publicly about her verbal and emotional abuse. Can you legally do that if you don't use it to contact them or list any names?
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I get what you're saying, but what is the point? The people who know or care already have their opinion about you and her; people who don't know, probably also don't care, and you "coming out publicly" won't win you any allies.
Think about it: your best case scenario in doing this is someone starts thinking she's a bad person. Your ex probably won't care what this person thinks, nor will what this person now thinks affect them.
Move on and let your ex be your ex.
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You have the right to speak about your own experiences, including abuse, as long as you don’t violate any legal orders or defame someone. A no-contact warning typically means you can’t communicate with the person directly or indirectly, but publicly sharing your story without naming them or identifying details is usually allowed. However, if your statements are seen as harassment or an attempt to bypass the no-contact rule, it could lead to legal trouble.
Defamation laws also matter. If what you say is true and based on your personal experience, it’s generally not defamation. But if your ex claims your statements are false and damaging, they could take legal action. Even without naming them, if enough details make it clear who you're talking about, they might still argue it’s harmful.
It’s important to consider the possible consequences before speaking out. Even if you’re legally in the clear, it might escalate conflict or bring unwanted attention. If you’re unsure, seeking legal guidance can help you figure out the safest way to share your truth.
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