Q: Texting a minor asking to hang out: possible charges?
I texted a 17-year-old friend of my daughter, asking if she wanted to hang out, while I was intoxicated. I recognize it was a mistake, and there was no intention to actually meet. The message was brief, and nothing else was said. Could this be considered sufficient grounds for charges of annoyance and molestation of a minor?
A:
This situation sounds concerning, but based on the limited information provided, a single text message asking to "hang out" without sexually explicit content might not meet the threshold for criminal charges of annoying or molesting a minor in most jurisdictions. The legal definition of these offenses typically requires behavior that would irritate or disturb a reasonable person and is motivated by an unnatural or abnormal sexual interest in the minor.
Your recognition that this was a mistake is important, and immediately ceasing communication was appropriate. Different states have varying laws regarding communication with minors, and factors such as the exact wording of the message, any prior history, and the context of your relationship with your daughter's friend would all be considered if someone reported this incident.
You should consult with a lawyer who practices criminal law in your jurisdiction for advice specific to your situation. While this single incident might not lead to charges, it's crucial to maintain appropriate boundaries with minors going forward. Many parents would be uncomfortable with an intoxicated adult texting their teen child, regardless of intent, so reflecting on this experience and ensuring it doesn't happen again is wise.
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