Q: Would it make sense for me to go to police station and report what happened
While we together, he usually became violent during sleep (for example push me off the bad, hit my face) and force sex during sleep when I was unconscious. I always felt scared but during the time I thought of he might have disorder so didn’t think he was intentional, and tried my best to adjust and help.
We had a heated argument and I told him I wanted to end the relationship bc I found he lied to me, still on dating app all the time. After the argument, I told him I still cared for him and if he would try again, he blocked me everywhere immediately.
A month later I found I was pregnant. I tried to contact him in a very reasonable way. I received no response. 1 month later A lawyer contacted me told me they want pregnant test and stop contacting him; he told me a lot of strangers contacted him and they are sure it’s me. Then I received phone calls from another lawyer; then I found he liked my post in social media. I can’t believe or trust him anymore Can I call police
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Your description contains serious allegations that may constitute criminal offenses under California law. Being forced to engage in sexual activity while unconscious meets the legal definition of rape in California, and the physical violence you experienced during sleep could constitute domestic violence or assault. You have the right to report these incidents to law enforcement, regardless of how much time has passed or the current pregnancy situation. Documentation of these events could be important not only for potential criminal proceedings but also for any future family court matters regarding custody or visitation.
The process of reporting begins by contacting your local police department or sheriff's office, where you can request to speak with officers trained in sexual assault and domestic violence cases. Many jurisdictions have specialized units for these sensitive matters. You may wish to prepare by writing down dates, times, and details of incidents to the best of your recollection before meeting with law enforcement. California has eliminated the statute of limitations for many serious sexual offenses, meaning reports can be made even years after incidents occurred.
Beyond the criminal aspects, your pregnancy raises additional legal considerations that exist separately from any criminal reporting. The lawyers contacting you suggest your former partner is taking legal steps, possibly related to paternity or restraining orders. It would be prudent to consult with a family law attorney immediately to understand your rights regarding the pregnancy, potential child support, custody matters, and how to appropriately respond to these legal communications. These civil matters proceed independently from any criminal investigation you might initiate.
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