Charlotte, NC asked in Adoption and Family Law for North Carolina

Q: My x just had a baby. She said the baby is mines, but she is placing it up for adoption. I do not agree. What can I do

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Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
Answered
  • Family Law Lawyer
  • Raleigh, NC
  • Licensed in North Carolina

A: You must either file to legitimate the child, file for paternity, marry her, or support the child. Supporting the child can be done in many ways. Act quickly though, because your time to act may have already passed, depending on how far along she is in the process. Consult with a family law attorney, to get more specific advice on your particular situation. Meanwhile, it would be best for you to give the mother some financial assistance (FYI, providing diapers is a type of financial assistance).

Mr. Albert Loch Saslow agrees with this answer

Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Answered
  • Family Law Lawyer
  • Greensboro, NC
  • Licensed in North Carolina

A: I agree with the answer that attorney Haas provided, specifically the need to do something support wise now. Assuming she does want to have the child adopted, you should be a party to that proceeding and your support (or lack thereof) will be an issue that the court will discuss.

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