Lakewood, NJ asked in Family Law and Adoption for New Jersey

Q: my husband has raised my son since 8 months old. hes now 4..

the bio father is not on the birth certificate, has never provided any assistance and has never even called to see how my son is doing. I am in the process of having my husband adopt my son, does the bio father have any rights to my son or since he pretty much abandoned him does he legally not count?

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Leonard R. Boyer
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  • Family Law Lawyer
  • Clifton, NJ
  • Licensed in New Jersey

A: You mentioned that you are in the process of having your current husband adopt your son, but I do not know what you actually mean by that. Do you have an experienced matrimonial attorney handling your case? If not, you are in so far over your head, that you will drown. This is a complex matter and the biological father must be given notice of any legal proceeding. To properly answer your questions and address your concerns, the best way to handle this is by retaining an experienced matrimonial attorney. You need the best attorney you can afford, do not let geographic considerations be a factor in your choice of an attorney. Pick the best lawyer you can find and remember one rule: a good lawyer is generally never cheap, and a cheap lawyer is generally never good so don't choose based on price. Good luck.

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