Cambridge, MA asked in Divorce for Massachusetts

Q: I am looking to get alimony from my ex spouse once child support payments terminate

I was married for over 20 years before divorcing my wife. We have 3 kids, one still in college, 2 out of college. I am paying child support and 1/3 college tuition. Once she graduates and child support is terminated, I would like to seek alimony, which is allowable per our divorce agreement. My ex wife makes 4x as much as I do. I changed careers during our marriage at her request to allow me to be an at home parent and provide much of the child care. Income in my field will never be enough to live independently despite my trying to get as much work as possible (I am a real estate appraiser). I am now living with someone however she owns the home, pays all expenses and I pay her rent every month. Our finances are completely separate. She does not support me and I am struggling financially. I now have a lot of debt because my income is just not enough to meet all of my obligations. Can I still pursue alimony?

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Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
Answered
  • Woburn, MA
  • Licensed in Massachusetts

A: You may have the ability to seek alimony, but an examination of your separation agreement is necessary to determine the viability of a Complaint for same. Your co-habitation is an issue under current alimony law, but still your separation agreement needs to be reviewed by an experienced domestic relations/divorce attorney.

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