Q: If relocating due to an abusive partner, should I tell my abuser if we share a child? If so, when and how?
I reside in the state of Illinois and I am a victim of domestic violence (emotional, physical and verbal). My abuser is my child's father. Four days ago, I finally gained the courage to file a police report against the father of my child after he assaulted me once more in front of my infant child - while holding her. Now, I am fighting for the safety and sanity of both myself and baby.
I plan to relocate to the state of Alabama and have not mentioned it to him. If I were to tell him - being the controlling person he is - he would try to stop me from leaving with the baby. My question is - do I give him the courtesy of telling him the baby and I will be leaving? If so, how soon? Or do I just leave and not say anything at all to avoid conflict?
Thank you.
A: You need more advice than an attorney can adequately provide without an in-person interview. Please, for the sake of yourself and your child, make an appointment with a family law lawyer. He or she ask the questions needed to give you advice. If you don't know who to call, contact a local shelter for abused women and ask if they can recommend a lawyer. Do it now. Don't delay. There are some things that can be done immediately if your situation warrants it, and it sounds like yours does from the limited information you provided.
Juan Ooink agrees with this answer
A: You need to discuss this with a Family Law Attorney right away. The sooner you speak with a Family Law Attorney, the better.
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