So the mother signed a guardianship document. What about the father? I am not sure if this document is valid.

Did she live at the grandparents' before you?

The police may help you get her belongings since you have guardianship.

If she is scared of the grandparents,... View More

Yes, the mother can terminate the guardianship at any time since it is not a court order. I had another case where that happened recently and the mother chose to take the kids from her parents and give them to another relative. The judge allowed the children to stay at the new relatives'... View More

You should hire a lawyer immediately if any of his 401k is left to have it held for child support AND if you intend to separate from him. Generally, if you are living together it is perceived that you are accepting his quitting his job and you will not get a child support order. He can not avoid... View More

Call SWAN. It is a shelter for women and children in Olney. Open 24 hours. 618-392-3556. They can provide shelter, food and clothing, help with an Order of Protection, counseling for women and children. They will help you find a job, get transportation, do a resume, work with the police, take... View More

You can use a form on the internet for this. Court is not necessary. Both mother and father should sign. Search for CFS 444-2 and you will find that form.

You will raise the child as yours for one year.

You are responsible for costs, including medical, educational, etc. that are... View More

When DCFS has your children or your boyfriend's children and you want them back, you do whatever they say whenever they say. A drug test is not unreasonable EVER when it comes to the safety of children. If doing drugs is more important than the children to the two of you, then by all means... View More

According to the Illinois Compiled Statutes (ILCS)

(755 ILCS 5/2-1) (from Ch. 110 1/2, par. 2-1)

Sec. 2-1. Rules of descent and distribution. The intestate real and personal estate of a resident decedent and the intestate real estate in this State of a nonresident decedent, after... View More

I don't believe so. You knew your promotion would result in a salary cut. Given that, you could have chosen to refuse that offer of employment. When the decrease in income is voluntary, one cannot decrease the maintenance they are paying. I suspect the court would keep you obligations the... View More

The POA died with your mother. If there is a will, it should be filed with the circuit clerk of the county she lived in within 30 days of her death. You can get a copy there. Do you know who the lawyer would have been that drafted poa's and maybe a will? If so, check there to see if they... View More

This is a matter that should be brought to the police, not to a family attorney. Illinois law prohibits certain categories of close family members from engaging in penetrative sexual intercourse. This includes aunts and uncles with nieces and nephews. Additionally, if your sister is a minor, your... View More

As an unmarried couple, albeit a long-term one, the law would not provide any transfer of the assets of each of you at your passings to the other person. You need 2 wills to achieve the results you are seeking. In them you could structure the passing of your assets and create a medical power of... View More

To add to the other attorney's answer: while you state that your grandparents are your guardians, it's not clear from your statement whether you are just using the term informally - i.e. that they are the people you live with who watch over you. For your mom to lose her rights or have her... View More

First, I’m sorry to hear about this difficult situation. Dealing with an affair during a separation is incredibly hard, and I understand how challenging this must be for you.

In Illinois, fault-based grounds for divorce (such as adultery) are no longer recognized, so an affair doesn’t... View More

With some exceptions, the general rule is anything acquired during the marriage is presumed to be marital property. There are some facts missing from your question that might help to better answer this. It sounds like non marital funds were used during the marriage to purchase the home. Without... View More

Is there a custody order in either state? This is a complicated matter that requires a phone call. I practice in Illinois but not in all counties in Illinois. It looks like you are from Paris, and if that is where your case is filed I would not be able to represent you. However, you need an... View More

Hello,

Thank you for your questions about spousal support (maintenance) in Illinois. Here's some information that may help address your concerns:

1. Reimbursement for Overpayment of Maintenance

Yes, under Illinois law, if you overpaid maintenance due to a decrease in... View More

Hello,

I'm sorry to hear about the verbal, mental, and financial abuse you've experienced. It's important to remember that domestic violence (DV) isn't limited to physical harm. The behaviors you describe are forms of DV, and it's not your fault.

You are... View More

Sounds like you need to take the truck privileges away. If he goes to his mom, she can provide him with a car or sign this one over to her so it's not your problem when you can't supervise him and he ends up in a bad accident. Is he going to go to school there? Does mom want him full... View More

I think you would have to file a temporary restraining order and preliminary injunction to order her to remove them. But I think you also would have to add what harm they are doing to you. And put when the last time was that she put one up. Children don't have control of who takes care of them.

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answered on Jun 8, 2024

I'm sorry to hear about the difficult situation with your stepmother. This is a complex issue that involves several areas of law. Here are a few key points to consider:

1. Guardianship: If your stepmom was not your legal guardian at the time the photos were taken, she may not have had... View More