Gurnee, IL asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Juvenile Law for Illinois

Q: My 12 yr old son told me he exchanged photos of his private parts w/ a girl his age on their phones. Do I need a lawyer?

My son deleted the pics but she shared his with someone at school - not sure how far it's gone. He doesn't even know why he did it, is ashamed, will never do it again but has been getting bullied. We talked to his therapist but she was only helpful for his mental health. I am not sure what direction to take and need some guidance. If I need a lawyer, what kind? Do I get the school involved? By the way, the initial exchange of pictures took place outside of school. My son is a good kid and made a one time stupid mistake. Help please.

2 Lawyer Answers
James G. Ahlberg
James G. Ahlberg
Answered
  • Rochelle, IL
  • Licensed in Illinois

A: As a practical matter you don't need a lawyer until the police or the school gets actively involved in the situation.

In the meantime, think of all the TV dramas you've seen where someone is warned "You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say can and will be used against you." Heed those words. Neither you nor your son should say ANYTHING to the police or the school without having your lawyer present. Do not believe them if they say it will all go away if you just explain it to them -- what they actually mean is it will all go away after the trial at which what they are told is placed in evidence in an attempt to convict your son.

Juan Ooink agrees with this answer

Juan Ooink
Juan Ooink
Answered
  • Criminal Law Lawyer
  • Bolingbrook, IL
  • Licensed in Illinois

A: If the Police call, DO NOT speak with them without an attorney by your side. You really should do nothing at this point and hope that the school does not get involved.

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