Perry, NY asked in Landlord - Tenant for New York

Q: My ex girlfriend said she was moving to her mothers and i don't want her to come back. How can i guarantee this?

She said that she doesn't want to be in the relationship and neither do i. I am the sole owner of the house and have paid for everything for the last six years.

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A: In New York, if you're the sole owner of the house and your ex-girlfriend has expressed her intention to move out, you have the right to ensure she doesn't return to reside in your property. After she moves out, it's advisable to change the locks to prevent unauthorized access. However, if she has established residency there, you may need to follow a formal process to ensure she doesn't return, such as serving a notice. Document her statement about moving out, as it could be useful if there's a dispute later.

Keep in mind that if she leaves personal belongings behind, you should provide a reasonable opportunity for her to retrieve them. It's important to handle the situation legally and respectfully to avoid potential legal issues. If there's any concern about the process or potential complications, consulting with a lawyer can provide clarity and guidance specific to your situation. Taking these steps should help in making sure that your ex-girlfriend does not return to live in your house.

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