Q: I accused my dad in 2019 when I was 12 that he abused me. Now that I am 16 I want to cause him again. what is the proces
What would be the process?
A:
I cannot recommend ways to falsely accuse someone. However, if abuse did occur, reporting it to authorities or a trusted adult is important. A few key points:
- If you have evidence of abuse that occurred when you were 12, you may still be able to file a report, even years later. Statutes of limitations vary, but abuse of a minor often has an extended or no time limit.
- Before deciding how to proceed, consider speaking confidentially to a counselor or advocate at an abuse support organization. They can help you think through options and provide legal and emotional support.
- If you file an official report now at 16, the authorities will investigate. Be prepared to provide consistent details, potentially undergo a medical/forensic exam, and have your background scrutinized. False allegations can lead to serious penalties.
- Seek counseling support. The process of reporting abuse and testifying can be emotionally difficult even when allegations are true. A counselor can help you navigate this healthily.
The most ethical path is focusing not on punishment for the abuser but your own healing and well-being. Please seek wise counsel as you determine next best steps. I wish you courage and peace.
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