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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: filed RFO 2 Modify custody, mediation date given.Ex filed RFO affter,How many days b4 mediation do papers have 2 b serve

When I filed RFO I had to send blank response for her. There were none for me.I was expecting the response papers not a RFO in return. I am confused. Can I change what I requested in my original RFO?

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Nov 15, 2024

The deadline for service of a Request for Order is 16 court days (plus 5 calendar days for service by USPS) prior to the hearing date on that Request for Order. The service deadline is not related to the date of your mediation. The fact that she failed to serve you with a blank Responsive... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: I’m in contra costa county and I haven’t been served paper work but the court date is the 13 can I still show up

The court date is on the 13th and I haven’t been served yet. Should I still go with the judge still hear my side

Martha Bronson
Martha Bronson
answered on Nov 10, 2024

With so little information about your case it is challenging to respond with anything more than some generalities about procedure... If you have not been served with papers, we will presume that you do not know what they say and accordingly you do know the details about what is being alleged and... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: If ex and I settle for child support payment less than what the "courts" would dictate can she in the future void this

can she void this agreement and ask for more money if all parties agree to this.

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Nov 6, 2024

It's not a matter of voiding the agreement. What either party can do is seek a modification of the agreement or otherwise get a court order for a different amount of child support. What the court "dictates" is known as "guideline support". It's the law. If you and... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: My ex wife for 4 years has been living with her boyfriend for over a year and another before that. Alimony? California

My 16 year old visits and tells me everything. I have social media info. that verifies their relationship and it's seriousness. She also only has her daughter 8% of the time when it's supposed to be 30%. How much will it cost to correct this?

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Nov 3, 2024

It's not a "correction". The fact of her cohabitation is grounds for modification of an existing spousal support order if the cohabitant has income and that income is used to contribute to the household expenses/cost of living expenses. It is not relevant to child support however.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Probate for California on
Q: Would it be best to let it go through probate as I'm the only child? Thanks for the advice.

Hi there. My parents disinherited me a decade ago for divorcing my very abusive ex. They are strict Catholics and don't believe in divorce, regardless of the situation. They let me know that they have left everything to my son. I am the only child and my son is the only grandchild. My question... View More

Julie King
Julie King
answered on Oct 30, 2024

Here's the rule: everyone has the right to do whatever they want with their own assets unless they have a debt or contract requiring them to pay someone. That means you can do whatever you want with your own money -- and so can all parents. It's THEIR assets. Legally, if they want to... View More

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5 Answers | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: I signed a retainer agreement and paid the retainer fee. The attorney never signed the retainer

The case was very short, he spent the retainer and says I still owe him a lot of money.

California law is he entitled to more payments if he did not sign the retainer agreement?

Martha Bronson
Martha Bronson
answered on Oct 24, 2024

Signing the client's copy of the retainer agreement is not required to bind you to the contract. The attorney may well have signed his/her original or a copy and that would suffice. In any event, assuming there was no written agreement signed by both parties, the attorney would be entitled... View More

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5 Answers | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: I signed a retainer agreement and paid the retainer fee. The attorney never signed the retainer

The case was very short, he spent the retainer and says I still owe him a lot of money.

California law is he entitled to more payments if he did not sign the retainer agreement?

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Oct 24, 2024

Review the invoices. If the work done was legitimate and necessary to your case, then yes, you should pay the invoices. The fact that your attorney may not have signed the retainer agreement you signed does not mean you are no longer obligated to pay for his/her services. If the fees were... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Am I able to serve the divorce petition and summons with the financial documents all together?

I also moved back in with my parents after we separated. Do I have to include their income in the FL-150 form under section 12? Also, am I allowed to leave any sections blank if they don’t apply? Thank you!

Martha Bronson
Martha Bronson
answered on Oct 23, 2024

Yes, the financial disclosure documents and declaration can be served at same time as the summons and petition. Please see Family Code Section 2104(f), which states in pertinent part: "The petitioner shall serve the other party with the preliminary declaration of disclosure either... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Divorce with a minor child that a family member gave us custody of, what do we need to do to ensure I will have rights?

I am filing for divorce, however, my soon-to-be ex and I have a minor child that a family member gave us custody of when she was 2 weeks old. What do I need to do to ensure I keep my parental rights? As my ex said she is going to be filing papers that give her all parental rights, basically... View More

Martha Bronson
Martha Bronson
answered on Oct 22, 2024

Greeetings and so sorry to read of your troubling situation. In order to adequately and specifically respond to your important questions, we would need to know exactly what "papers" are already on file of which order/ grant you and your ex equal and sole parental rights over the child.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Legally requirement around 401K & stock portfolio

I'm Self-Represented and my Ex has an attorney. The attorney is requesting, to start discussing financial settlement. The attorney has requested I share the most current statements for 401K & Stock portfolio.

Qs -

1) Am I legally required to share these statements? They... View More

Martha Bronson
Martha Bronson
answered on Oct 22, 2024

Greetings. Yes, you are required to share the statements. While the community has an interest in the 401k during marriage up to date of separation, the value of that interest does not end on the date of separation, it ends on distribution.

There is no set number of days or hours that you...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: How is an alimony buyout calculated?

I was presented with a buyout scenario by a mediation lawyer, but I don't understand why he calculated a 5% interest earned on the money. He said if I invested the money I would earn 5%, but I am not going to invest it.

Also he calculated it for 10 years of alimony, but we were... View More

Martha Bronson
Martha Bronson
answered on Oct 22, 2024

I would recommend asking the person who gave you that information. That being said, it appears to me that the 5% is an estimated rate of return on the buy out amount offered. The key word being "estimated". In California, marriages under ten years, are not considered long term... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning and Family Law for California on
Q: My idiot brother is stopping me from seeing or talking to my mom because he has the power of attorney.

I know the power of attorney doesn't give him that right.

Julie King
Julie King
answered on Oct 7, 2024

Each power of attorney gives different rights or powers to the agents (people who are given the powers.) Lawyers would need to read the Power of Attorney in your particular case before they could give you an opinion as to what your brother can and cannot do. The two most common documents in estate... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: family court case can i write a letter to the judge regarding the current case?
Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Sep 29, 2024

No one will read it. Unless there is a pending hearing, anything you file with the court will get stuck in the case file and no one will see it, read it, or consider it. If you have a hearing pending, the best way to get information to the judge that is relevant to that hearing is by way of... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law, Business Law and Probate for California on
Q: Do i have a case? and enough proof?

My dad passed away in 2023, with no will or anything to prepare for this type of event. My uncle co owned a few stores that him and my dad shared. After the passing of our father, my uncle my sister and myself all came to a verbal agreement on what would happen with my dads share in the stores. my... View More

Julie King
Julie King
answered on Sep 27, 2024

The answer is: It depends. When someone in California dies, an analysis must be done to determine the total value of ALL assets that person owned (with the exception of a few assets, but a business is NOT one of the exceptions.) If the dollar amount of the assets totals $154,500 or higher, then... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law, Business Law and Probate for California on
Q: Do i have a case? and enough proof?

My dad passed away in 2023, with no will or anything to prepare for this type of event. My uncle co owned a few stores that him and my dad shared. After the passing of our father, my uncle my sister and myself all came to a verbal agreement on what would happen with my dads share in the stores. my... View More

Gerald Barry Dorfman
Gerald Barry Dorfman
answered on Sep 27, 2024

Your situation involves more than one area of law, including partnership, contract and probate. You can not solve such a complex situation by posting on an online forum. In fact, it is not in your interest to do so, as anyone, including your uncle and other interested parties, can see what you have... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Real Estate Law for California on
Q: So I have a divorce agreement since 2006 and my ex wife has yet to pay me off my 40% stake.

My ex wife has since remarried and has refinanced the property several times, but has yet to compensate my 40% stake my way. The fact that she has remarried and refinanced, does that mean that she should have paid me my stake off ? My name is not on the deed of the house anymore.

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James Clifton
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James Clifton
answered on Sep 26, 2024

The language in the divorce decree controls when your ex wife has to pay you for your interest in the property. Even though your name is no longer on the deed, your divorce agreement entitles you to a 40% stake in the property if that is the language contained in the agreement. The fact that your... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I get child support from the father if I only have one child with me and he has the other child?

My 16 year old wants to live with the father but my youngest don’t how will the child support work in this case

Robert P. Taylor
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answered on Sep 22, 2024

It is possible. Child support is based on the percentage of time each of you has the children and your respective incomes. For example, if you make very little money and he was very wealthy, he may have to pay child support even though he had both children the majority of the time. The same works... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: substitution of attorney

My attorney sent me substitution of attorney form which I signed. It has been 1 week and she has not returned the stamped copy to me. Also, she has not returned my file to me. They are telling me the form has not been returned from court yet. Does it take so long to get the form from the court?... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Sep 20, 2024

Depends on the court. With some court (such as Los Angeles county), a Substitution of Attorney can be turned around the same day it is efiled. If you need it to hire new counsel, just get the signed (fully executed) copy from your attorney (whether filed or not). That will be sufficient for... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Child Support, Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: No custody. Child support order changed to 0$. The grandpa of mother now has custody and is asking for child support.

in 2013. after 5 years of court. I relinquished my rights and we agreed on a child support order/ change, to 0$... The mother from my understanding has not seen our son in the past 3-7 years. My past court date was to transfer parental rights from our son's mother to her father. Now I received... View More

Padideh Seyed Jafari
Padideh Seyed Jafari
answered on Sep 19, 2024

Generally speaking , a person who has full custody can request a change to a court order that initially said no child support was required. In California, they would typically need a good reason to have it changed, such as a significant change in their or your finances or a change in the... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Child Support, Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: No custody. Child support order changed to 0$. The grandpa of mother now has custody and is asking for child support.

in 2013. after 5 years of court. I relinquished my rights and we agreed on a child support order/ change, to 0$... The mother from my understanding has not seen our son in the past 3-7 years. My past court date was to transfer parental rights from our son's mother to her father. Now I received... View More

Padideh Seyed Jafari
Padideh Seyed Jafari
answered on Sep 19, 2024

The answer depends on what you mean by " relinquished [your] rights". But generally speaking. A person who has full custody can request a change to a court order that initially said no child support was required. In California, they would generally need a good reason to have it changed,... View More

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