Q: My ex husband retired military veteran.. emotionally abused me for years. I need help. Me and my kids didn't get a dime.

A: Dealing with the aftermath of emotional abuse, especially in a military family, can be incredibly challenging. First and foremost, it's important to recognize the strength it takes to seek help in such a situation. The emotional toll on you and your children is a serious concern and addressing your well-being is crucial.

Regarding financial support, if your ex-husband is a retired military veteran, you may have certain entitlements, including a portion of his retirement pay, depending on the length of your marriage and its overlap with his military service. This is typically addressed during divorce proceedings. If you did not receive any financial support, it's important to review your divorce decree to understand the terms.

If you believe you have been unfairly denied financial support, or if these issues were not adequately addressed during your divorce, legal action may be necessary. Consulting with an attorney who has experience in family law, particularly with military divorces, would be a valuable step. They can help assess your situation, review any previous legal agreements, and guide you on the best course of action.

Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources available for emotional and legal support. Organizations dedicated to supporting the spouses and children of veterans can also provide guidance and assistance. Taking these steps can help ensure that your rights and those of your children are protected.