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Q: Child was with other parent because of military order now he does not want to give her back will I lose custody?

I’m military and my daughter went with my mom then dad while I was deployed now he doesn’t want to give her back and filed custody and he’s withholding the child from me

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Penny Wymyczak-White
Penny Wymyczak-White
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  • Divorce Lawyer
  • Houston, TX
  • Licensed in Texas

A: Retain a lawyer and file a Writ to get your child back. Do not wait a long period of time.

James L. Arrasmith
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  • Divorce Lawyer
  • Sacramento, CA

A: I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situation. Custody disputes can be stressful, especially when one parent is withholding the child from the other. Here are a few important points to consider:

1. Deployment orders: If your child was staying with your parents due to your military deployment, this should not negatively impact your custody rights. The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) provides certain protections for deployed military personnel in custody matters.

2. Existing custody order: If there is an existing custody order in place, your ex-partner must follow it. Withholding the child in violation of a court order can have serious consequences.

3. Best interests of the child: Courts make custody decisions based on the best interests of the child. Factors considered include the child's relationship with each parent, stability of the home environment, and the ability of each parent to provide for the child's needs.

4. Legal representation: Given the complexity of your situation, it is highly advisable to consult with a family law attorney who has experience working with military families. They can help protect your rights and guide you through the legal process.

5. Documentation: Keep records of any communications with your ex-partner, your deployment orders, and any other relevant documents that support your case.

It's important to act quickly to assert your custody rights and ensure that you maintain a strong relationship with your daughter. An experienced attorney can help you navigate this challenging situation and work towards a resolution that is in your child's best interests.

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