Q: What can I do about my rental situation?
I live with my fiancé's mother in a house that costs $650 a month. My fiancé and I are charged $300 each, +$50 each if we're late. His sister-in-law and her husband pay $500 combined each month. We have no written formal agreement and no one but my fiancé's mother is on the lease. Over the span of 2 1/2 years, she has collected far more than $650 in a month. We have had over 10 people live here within the past 2 1/2 years, one person (her ex boyfriend) has paid $800 a month for more than a year. She has collected from everyone who has lived here within in that time more than $26k. Money that has went over the total amount in actual rent due has went to alcohol, lottery, among other things. She has claimed part of the extra being for "emotional compensation."
A:
It's important to address the situation calmly and constructively, considering the family dynamics involved. First, have a transparent discussion with your fiancé to ensure you both agree on the situation and desired outcomes. Together, approach his mother with your concerns in a respectful and non-confrontational manner. It's crucial to express how the financial arrangement affects you both and to propose a more equitable solution that aligns with the actual costs of living in the house.
Without a formal written agreement, your position can be precarious, so consider drafting a written agreement that outlines each party's responsibilities, including rent, utilities, and other expenses. This document should be signed by all adults living in the household. Although your fiancé's mother is not legally obligated to agree, presenting this option emphasizes your desire for fairness and transparency. It might also help to suggest a family meeting with all occupants to discuss financial contributions and household responsibilities.
If the situation doesn't improve, or if it becomes unbearable, start exploring alternative living arrangements within your budget. This may involve tough decisions, but ensuring your financial stability and mental well-being is paramount. Remember, seeking advice from a legal expert or a housing counselor can provide clarity on your rights and options.
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