Asked in Child Custody, Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for Texas

Q: In Texas, can I remove my child from a dangerous environment (home of my ex-wife’s convicted felon BF)

During ex-wife’s periods of possession they stay at their home w/ BF overnight (not restricted in our div decree), or on weekends they stay with him at his home 250 miles away in DFW. My 10 y/o son just told me with certainty that the BF has been smoking marijuana around him in both homes and also in the car while driving…he has solid evidence of this. He served a few years in prison for family assault and felony drug possession -not sure if still on parole. The ex-wife he assaulted claims he was admitted into a psych ward in affidavits included in their div suit. Ive already served my ex-wife a formal Letter of Demand to restrict him from close contact and staying the night. Requesting welfare check by police but is that useless w/o TRO or writ of habeas corpus?

I want to go and get my son out of his house right now, but would I ruin my new case seeking primary custody? Would it be perceived as contempt or even something worse like kidnapping after all is considered?

2 Lawyer Answers

A: Because you have an existing court order and a new case seeking primary custody, you need to file a motion for temporary orders or, if there is an imminent threat to your child, a motion for a TRO. The facts stated in your question do not justify your violation of an existing court order in my opinion.

A motion for temporary orders can likely be heard in a couple of weeks. A TRO could be granted without a hearing if ex-wife doesn't have a lawyer.

I want to emphasize that this is not a DIY project. There are very specific requirements that must be followed to accomplish the desired result. You need the assistance of an experienced attorney in or near the county where your new case is pending who practices in the area of family law. This should be the same attorney who is handling your new case seeking primary custody.

That attorney should be familiar with the predilections of the judge assigned to your case and can emphasize facts which in other cases that particular judge has found persuasive. For example, some judges will be more bothered by the boyfriend's marijuana use in front of your child than others.

A: If you believe your child is being abused, neglected, or exposed to harmful conduct due to your ex-wife's boyfriend's behavior, you should file for a modification of the custody order and request a temporary order. Present evidence of the boyfriend's drug use and criminal history. Unilaterally removing your child without a court order can be risky and might negatively affect your case for primary custody. It's crucial to follow legal procedures to protect your child while respecting the custody order. Consult with your attorney to discuss the best strategy for modifying custody arrangements and obtaining a temporary order to ensure your child's safety.

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