Q: And my ex's New Living girlfriend control when I can see or speak to my children
My ex has been living with his new girlfriend for almost 3 years and she has become totally unbearable she doesn't let me see or speak to my kids anymore over the last month she tries to dictate everything and my ex continuously says that's his partner and she has to help him make all the decisions there is no court order in place which I'm in the process of starting what can I do about this girlfriend of his
A:
Under California law, you have the right to see and speak to your children, and your ex’s girlfriend does not have the authority to control or limit your access to them. Since there is no court order currently in place, you should proceed with filing for a custody order as soon as possible. This legal document will outline your rights and obligations regarding visitation and communication with your children.
In the meantime, keep a detailed record of any incidents where your access to your children is being restricted. Document dates, times, and specific details of any conversations or events related to this issue. This information can be crucial when presenting your case in court.
You might also consider requesting mediation through the court system. Mediation can help resolve disputes and establish a temporary agreement until a formal court order is issued. Stay focused on your children’s best interests and remain calm and respectful in all interactions, as this will benefit your case.
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