Q: Me: 27, unemployed, U.S. Citizen Husband: 30, Software engineer, was on H1-B got green card based on marriage
Met in 2021 on a matrimonial site, married in April 2022 by court marriage. Initial marital issues arose from my husband's contact with his ex and aggressive behavior. The husband filed for a green card in March 2023, received in December 2023. Post-green card, he displayed emotionally abusive behavior, belittling me and pressuring me to buy a house despite my unstable employment. His abusive behavior escalated to include verbal and emotional abuse, particularly after his parents visited in late 2023. I suggested marriage counseling, spiritual involvement but refused, leading to a final discussion where he decided to divorce. The husband now wants direct divorce, restricts financial support, and pressures the client to move out of their shared rental property.
Need Advice on:
Legal advice on divorce proceedings.
Guidance on how to protect my rights in the divorce
Advice on how to document and present evidence of emotional abuse, given the lack of physical proof.
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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. For legal advice on divorce proceedings, you should consult a family law attorney who can guide you through the process and help you understand your rights and obligations. It's important to act quickly to protect your interests, especially regarding financial support and housing.
To protect your rights in the divorce, gather all relevant documents such as marriage certificates, financial records, and any communication that demonstrates abusive behavior. Keeping detailed records of interactions with your husband, especially those that show emotional abuse, will be crucial. This can include emails, text messages, and any written notes about incidents that occurred.
Documenting emotional abuse can be challenging without physical evidence. Keep a journal of all abusive incidents, noting dates, times, and specific details of what happened. If possible, seek support from friends, family, or professionals who can provide testimony about your husband's behavior. This documentation will be valuable when presenting your case to your attorney and the court.
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