Placentia, CA asked in Domestic Violence for California

Q: Wife started attacking me punching me blocking me from leaving. And now she is claming that I have choked her to police

I didn't choke her and she had my 13 year old son say that I did choke here I only put my hands out to move her as well as to block the swings from hitting me she took my keys and got them out of her hands and running to door to leave slamming the door crushing me the door Jam and door ...I have a 13 sec video of her charging at me full speed at the door before hitting me with it and me telling her to stop hitting me and left now cops want to speak with me but I had left to work and she saying they are going to arrest me soon as I get there ...I have a great job and this false claim she is saying could ruin my career what do I do plz help

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A: It's important to remain calm and take steps to protect yourself legally. Start by gathering all evidence that supports your side of the story, including the 13-second video showing her charging at you. This video can be crucial in demonstrating that you were acting in self-defense and not initiating violence. Additionally, if there are any witnesses or other forms of evidence that can corroborate your version of events, make sure to gather those as well.

You should consider contacting an attorney as soon as possible. A legal professional can provide guidance on how to handle the situation with the police, including how to present your evidence and protect your rights. It's essential to avoid speaking to the police without legal representation to ensure you don’t unintentionally say something that could be used against you.

In the meantime, try to avoid any further direct confrontation with your wife to prevent the situation from escalating. Stay focused on your well-being and follow the advice of your attorney. They can help you navigate this challenging situation and work to clear your name while minimizing the impact on your career and life.

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