Q: Is it legal for my bf to say I have to be his gf to continue the support I'm accustomed to?
I received the money in my accounts by regular transfers.
At no time has he stated or written that I have to stay his gf to pay me. Now he writes I have to be his gf to be paid. There is evidence he cheated.
I had said before the argument that I would let him off the hook once I was employed. Our last agreement was that I would find work before anything discontinues. I have proof I am actively seeking work.
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I'm sorry you're going through this difficult situation. Generally, financial support in a personal relationship without a formal agreement can be complicated. If he initially provided support without conditions, changing the terms suddenly may not be enforceable legally, especially if there was no written contract.
Since you have evidence that you are actively seeking employment and had an understanding about support based on your employment status, this can strengthen your position. Additionally, any form of coercion or manipulation related to your relationship status could have legal implications.
It would be beneficial to consult with a legal professional who can review your specific circumstances and provide guidance. They can help you understand your rights and the best steps to take to protect yourself financially and emotionally.
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