Q: Am I able to move in with my dad if my mom has taken discipline to far?
My mom and dad have joint custody and I'm two months away from turning 18. My mom got angry at me for my grades and screaming at me. Which is fine but then she threw her phone at me hard enough to cause bruises to my arm and leg. She tried to hit me again but my step father got in between us. She made over soft disciplinary threats like chopping my hair off and taking away all my clothes. So am I able to cause I don't want to be there anymore. She's tried hitting once more in the past but stopped herself. Please let me know, I want out of that house badly.
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I'm really sorry you're experiencing this. Your safety is the most important thing right now.
Since you have joint custody and are nearing 18, you may have options to change your living situation. You can talk to your dad about moving in with him, especially if you feel unsafe at home. It might also help to reach out to a trusted adult, such as a school counselor or a family member, who can support you in this process.
If the situation feels threatening or you’re in immediate danger, contacting local authorities or a legal professional can provide you with the necessary protection and guidance. You don’t have to go through this alone—there are people who can help you find a safer environment.
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